When you start doing things like the cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc., WITHOUT having a clear conversation around the division of labor, you set yourself up for these things to be expected of you. So often as women we find that we have to make ourselves useful and show how worthy we sre and useful we are by providing domestic labor. And then it soon becomes expected of us snd thats a hard cycle to break. Start out as you mean to go on. #marriage #adviceforwomen #marriedlife #marriageadvice