This is actually insane. And it’s so affordable. And rechargeable!

When a man says he wants a “chill girl” a “laid back girl” what he wants doesnt actually exist. Bc the chill girl is a facade to trick men into picking them. When he says he doesnt want someone who argues all day, he means he doesnt want someone who makes him feel less intelligent. Or questions him bc hes too insecure and will feel emasculated by a woman who may be better than him, and he knows it. He wants someone who doesn’t question him. Who doesnt challenge him, bc if she does, he will realize he doesnt hold a candle to her.

Replying to @alaricthe1st minimizing these very laborious tasks to such minuscule expectations is ignorant and tells us that you truly have NO idea as to what goes into the teo things you think are low expectations of women - since women are the ones predominantly doing these two things. Its easy to say something is easy when youve never done it to its full extent for an extended period of time. Instead of minimizing this work - which is often done by women for free, you could put yourself in their shoes. Or you could do it yourself for years snd then come back and tell us how little of an expectation it is. #motherhood #momtok #marriage #marriedlife #adviceforwomen

If you want to carry-on about how men built the streets, the infrastructure, and all of the things that we use daily, please don’t forget then that men also built the court systems, the justice system, and all the other systems that you referred to when you say that men are oppressed by them. Because remember, men built them, right?

Please stop normalizing this, I'm begging you. It continues to set this as the expectation for marriage and relationships. Just like the old adage "the old ball and chain." Where men are trapped and unhappy in their marriages. Where women are seen as "too much" and husbands are simply "putting up" with their wives. This is quite literally the exact opposite of a healthy relationship, yet we're normalizing and perpetuating the stereotype that husbands secretly, or not so secretly, hate their wives. It's not cute, and it's not funny. And it's harmful to women, honestly. It continues to force women to be smaller, to be "less," to be more palatable for men. Because the opposite of those things means our husbands openly dislike us and find our mere existence annoying. #relationshipadvice #husbandwife #adviceforwomen #marriage #dating

90% of mother's are custodial parents, and more often than not, children are taken by their non-custodial parent - which is most likely their fathers, not strangers. I'm all for advocating and bringing awareness to child safety, but shaming moms while doing it when we have no context to what a mom was doing on her phone isn't helpful. We know independent play is good for kids. That doesn't mean you shouldn't or can't play with your kids - do what works for you! But let's not shame other moms because you believe a mom isn't paying close enough attention to their children at the playground. #momtok #motherhood #momlife #momsoftiktok

It's not your fault. You also don't have to accept it. You don't have to accept less than what you truly want and deserve. You don't have to be grateful for what you have if it's not truly enough for you, just because it could be worse. Just because someone else said that you're asking for too much. Or because someone else told you this is what marriage was, and that you're simply going to have to tolerate a certain level of unhappiness. A certain level of shortcomings, disrespect, and lack of acknowledgment. You get to decide what's tolerable and what's not. But if you have to convince yourself that you should just be grateful for what you have because it COULD be worse, you're settling. And you shouldn't have to settle. That doesn't have to be your ending. #marriage #marriedlife #adviceforwomen

This was on my stories but so many of yku asked me to post it to save and download. Since ive been creating content and talking to women over the past 4 years, Ive learned that more often than not, men arent going to change. And i dont feel like its fair to have yet another thing added to womens to do list. I used to advocate heavily for fair play, but the thing about implementing a system to more equitably and fairly divide domestic labor, is that you first have to havr a partner willing to listen and hear you. Truly hear you. And i dont believe most men will chance bc theyve benefited too greatly from their current setup. So im shifting my content to focus on liberating women. On living for themselves. And to realize they deserve happiness - no matter what that looks like. #adviceforwomen #marriedlife #marriage #advice

I'm talking to creators and influencers. You should be communicating to your husband once or twice what you expect on and for special events/day such as mother's day, birthdays, anniversaries. I'm asking creators and influencers to STOP giving men ideas for these special days. Because how do you not know your wife well enough to know what to get her? How are you going to rely on a stranger to give your broad ideas that may not be applicable to your wife? Instead of taking genuine interest in your wife. Instead of paying attention throughout the year about the things she likes and is interested in, or has mentioned to you that she would like, or what she would like to do. How are you falling THAT short?! #mothersday #adviceforwomen #momtok #motherhood #marriedlife

Women are not your personal therapists. We are not your teachers. We are not your mothers. At some point, men are going to have to do the hard work of working through their issues instead of expecting women to do it for them. We do not owe you time, energy, niceties, or space for the issues you refuse to face and resolve. #adviceforgirls #marriedlife #marriage