Might delete this.. this is my honest opinion and it’s not meant to hurt anyones feelings. But I feel like women are sold the idea of a fairytale wedding their whole life and feel the pressure of society to make it a reality only to end up in debt. I think we need to normalize that spending 5,6,7 figures on a party is insanity. The beginning of your marriage is the start of a beautiful chapter in your life, I want you to start finacially ahead not in debt