I dont think people talk enough about how hard it is when your significant other gets out of the military and you pack up and move your family across the country away from the life you built. I left the best friends ive ever had and took a huge step back in my career, i honestly dont even have a career anymore. Sure we are so closer to our family and im so grateful my kids get to have a relationship with their grandparents, great grandparents, aunt, and uncles but i miss the life we built, the friendships we made, and the career i worked so hard for. I have no friends here, not for a lack of trying belive me. I had to get rid of my pets. I sacrificed a lot to do whata best for my family. I feel like theres a big hole in my life and i hope i can fill it back up one day. #milspouse #postmilitary #family