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The correlation between childhood trauma, neurodivergence and being susceptible to narcissistic abuse as an adult is undeniable in my experience. Internal family systems parts work, emdr and healing those inner children are imperative in my healing and self discovery. To feel safe enough to unmask feels unnatural but so freeing at the same time. . . . . . #thedreamofthe2ndattention #dreamofthe2ndattention #coercivecontrol #traumabonding #neurodivergent #neurospicy #narctok #adhd #adhdtiktok #toxicempathy

Dont get hoovered with, “I am sorry.” Blanket, general Apologies without accountability or a plan of action for change and are just further manipulation. Wanting to know exactly what someone is sorry for isn’t being too much. Wanting to talk about your feelings is warranted and doesnt make you wrong. . . . . . #thedreamofthe2ndattention #dreamofthe2ndattention #coercivecontrolawareness #coercivecontrol #traumabonding #maniplulation #emotionalabuse

And the fear of becoming the scapegoat can make people inside the cycle conform to the wants of the puppet master. The scapegoat can change for periods of time as well, especially when the puppet master is passively punishing someone . . . . . #thedreamofthe2ndattention #dreamofthe2ndattention #coercivecontrolawareness #coercivecontrol #highcontrolgroup #toxicfamily

Is it make up sex or just breadcrumbs? Be as mindful and honest with yourself as possible here. Is sex a coping mechanism but also leaves you shame filled and requires you to abandon yourself? Something we look forward to but also get a sick feeling in our stomach at the same time? What is causing this dissonance? . . . . . #thedreamofthe2ndattention #dreamofthe2ndattention #audhdtok #coercivecontrolawareness #coercivecontrol #healingjourney #selflove #alchemize #traumabonding #breadcrumbing