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Love and limerence are not the same thing. Love is often confused with attachment and limerence. Many people think that because they love somebody or they really like somebody that they should equally like them back and that’s not how life works not everybody is gonna like you just because you like them and if if you feel the need to try to force that it is Limerence or attachment Love itself is autonomous it’s peaceful it’s calm and it’s accepting that that person may or may not be in your life forever and sometimes their journey may not include you, but you love them and you want to see them flourish anyway . #######limerence#love#attachment#loriwheeler#selfesteem#autonomyoriginal sound

Duration: 80 sPosted : Wed, 03 Apr 2024 14:11:49

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People will get salty when you don’t engage in their smearing. The key is to not engage. Grab some popcorn and see what it is if they’re actually talking about and just enjoy the ride. Living your best life and taking the things that they throw at you or say about you and building it into your own fortress in castle is how you win at Life. And then you can keep them on the outside of that circle anyway. ##confidence##loriwheeler##smearcampaigns##letthem##itiswhatitis
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Regardless of all of the amazing things that you will do there’s always gonna be someone or someone’s who are going to constantly try to tear you down and constantly complain about it and it’s about what you’re gonna do with that fuel if you’re gonna let it fuel you or if you’re gonna let it burn you. your mindset is the most priceless thing that you’ll probably ever have in your entire life and that’s because you were the only one in control of it and how you see life is how life is going to be and if you see there smearing as fuel, it’s gonna elevate you higher than you ever thought that you could go . #c#confidences#smearcampaignl#loriwheelers#selfconfidencei#innerpeace
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You under no obligation to fulfill their expectations or narrative of you that they have in their mind. Do not waste energy or time trying to explain yourself over explain yourself or worry about their disappointment because you didn’t achieve some level of their expectations. #selfconfidence #selflove #loriwheeler #expectations #relationships
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Limerence in any type of a relationship is going to be detrimental and disastrous. It will always fail to the person who has limerence that the other person is not as in or have the same feelings. no one should be obsessed with anyone and if there’s a level of obsession to where you have to change your software, you want to change things to get the person to like you. This is going to create a long-term issue. Should the relationship go forward at all. ##limerence##relationships##loriwheeler##redflags##selfawareness
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There will be people who are mad that you’re not sad or upset that they’re mad because of your boundaries. This is how you know that you’re on the right path to your inner peace into your freedom from those ties that you feel like you need to keep. The key is as your building your confidence to be nonreactive don’t respond let them think and say what they wanna say be the best villain that you can be because when you do that, you know that that confidence is coming and you just keep practicing it over and over again . #confidence #boundaries #selfconfidence #innerpeace #loriwheeler
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