Replying to @thatgalinoveralls No lie, my partner never thought I would “get it.” But I believe many of us are capable of change. Putting boundaries in place around minimum standards of care (whether it be parenting duties, sex life, finances, values, friendships, meal prep, hobbies, self-care routines etc.) that allow both partners to share burdens and maintain their humanity is key. #fyp #foryoupage #communication #codependency #discomfort #healing #minimumstandardofcare #standard #boundarysetting #genderroles #growthmindset #ifhewantedtohewould #marriage #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #attachment #trauma #therapy