This is actually insane. And it’s so affordable. And rechargeable!

When a man says he wants a “chill girl” a “laid back girl” what he wants doesnt actually exist. Bc the chill girl is a facade to trick men into picking them. When he says he doesnt want someone who argues all day, he means he doesnt want someone who makes him feel less intelligent. Or questions him bc hes too insecure and will feel emasculated by a woman who may be better than him, and he knows it. He wants someone who doesn’t question him. Who doesnt challenge him, bc if she does, he will realize he doesnt hold a candle to her.

Replying to @alaricthe1st minimizing these very laborious tasks to such minuscule expectations is ignorant and tells us that you truly have NO idea as to what goes into the teo things you think are low expectations of women - since women are the ones predominantly doing these two things. Its easy to say something is easy when youve never done it to its full extent for an extended period of time. Instead of minimizing this work - which is often done by women for free, you could put yourself in their shoes. Or you could do it yourself for years snd then come back and tell us how little of an expectation it is. #motherhood #momtok #marriage #marriedlife #adviceforwomen

If you want to carry-on about how men built the streets, the infrastructure, and all of the things that we use daily, please don’t forget then that men also built the court systems, the justice system, and all the other systems that you referred to when you say that men are oppressed by them. Because remember, men built them, right?

Please stop normalizing this, I'm begging you. It continues to set this as the expectation for marriage and relationships. Just like the old adage "the old ball and chain." Where men are trapped and unhappy in their marriages. Where women are seen as "too much" and husbands are simply "putting up" with their wives. This is quite literally the exact opposite of a healthy relationship, yet we're normalizing and perpetuating the stereotype that husbands secretly, or not so secretly, hate their wives. It's not cute, and it's not funny. And it's harmful to women, honestly. It continues to force women to be smaller, to be "less," to be more palatable for men. Because the opposite of those things means our husbands openly dislike us and find our mere existence annoying. #relationshipadvice #husbandwife #adviceforwomen #marriage #dating