I was looking for specific things to never happen instead of what i wanted to have happen when getting out of an abusive narcissistic relationship Of course there were things that i hoped a future partner would do but i was extremely certain on what i would never tolerate ever again in a relationship. Obviously these are things based on my own personal experience and my abusive relationship doesnt mean that yours was the same but if youre looking to leave a narcisssitc relationship or narcissist partner - this type of list building helped me a lot #relationship #narcissism #narcissist #breakup #toxicrelationship #toxicboyfriend #abuseawareness #relationshipgoals #relationships #narcissisticrelationship #narctok

It works for us so thats all ill say!🫶🏼♥️✨ #relationships #bills #expenses #finances #relationshipgoals

ADHD women and narcissistic partners: the most common pairing. ADHD individuals get so caught up in the highs of a new novel individual especially a romantic partner that they tend to hyer-fixate on them. This leads to missing out on all of the red flags that present. At the beginning the pairing seems like a “perfect match” but over time the ADHD traits remain and the mask of the narcissist falls off. All of the things they thought were cute or special that derived from your ADHD will become the very things that they hate you for. Theyll start to call you defensive, critical, judgemental and so much more because your adhd pulls you to ask questions, curiosity and need to understand. Guess what? Because you probably have some trauma earlier in your life due to adhd, youll believe them. Omg i am critical. I am judgemental. Im not actually empathetic. I am defensive. Its how they wittle you down and shrink you smaller and smaller. They get you to do it to yourself. #narcissistsurvivor #narctok #adhd #audhd #narcabuse #narcbehavior #narcissistbehavior #toxicpartner #narcissisticpartner #breakup #trauma #abusesurvivor #manipulationcontrol

Some say theres no such thing as wasted love - they’ve never met a narcissist. How many of us helped build the nacrcissist up? Give them a place to stay? Opportunities? Stuck with them through hardship (even tho most of the time it was self inflicted hardship) Just for them to cheat. Lie. Steal from you. At the end of it all, throw it back in your face like you never did anything for them. Theyre not worth your time in the end - theres a better life away from the narcissist. I promise you💖 #narcissistic #narcissist #toxicpartner #emptylove #breakup #narcissisticpartner #trauma #toxicboyfriend #toxicrelationships #narctok #narcbehavior