Think in momentsā¦ not years. If you only see your parents 2x a year and they live for another 5 yearsā¦ you donāt have 5 years with them, you have 10 more visits with them. There are college friends I see once every 5 years, Iāll probably see them a few more times in my life. Two tips: 1. Prioritize the relationships that are important to you. Make it a point to see the people that matter. 2. And thenā¦ Make the moments matter. Be present. Think in moments.