We cant say that one partner’s moves toward connection are better than the others’. Withdrawers use avoidant strategies to protect the relationship (a creative attempt toward connection). When the pursuing and withdrawing becomes a pattern softer vulnerable feelings are not shared and the bond becomes susceptible to attachment injuries. #emotionallyunavailaible #couplesneeds #romanticlovestatus #anxiousavoidanttrap #anxiousattachmentsupport