I've learnt so much about myself in the past few years, I am empathic, kind, loving, loyal, strong, understanding, forgiving, bold, honest, very sarcastic and hilarious (just ask me lol) which none of that I will ever change, but what I noticed is pouring into other's cups meant taking from mine, sitting back and watching those who I would reach out to first stop communicating, watching others who I adore show me time and time again who they are in friendships. It's tough to watch and feel right? but it makes you stronger. Realising I will give you all of who I am if you wish to be in my world and none of who I am if you don't see me and my core. We live in a world where it is not hard to communicate 2 seconds to send a text right? Even if it's I'm sad or I need some help, or a hi or Im sorry or I need some laughter or a hug, and to tbh I understand those who struggle with communication, watching what fear, anxiety, pride and ego does to people is one of the hardest parts of what I do. I will always be the soul that loves to pour into peoples cups, it's just who I am, I am the person who will always offer her time, her heart, her words or ears, compassion, understanding, forgiveness or humour if needed, but I've learnt to always pour into my cup first, because at the end of the day it's you that needs to see your value and worth, not friendships or relationships that choose not to fill your cup over their lack or fear of communication And the realisation that, that is okay, its okay to loose people, its because when we really start to see our value that those that dont sometimes fade away and that is okay. Fill your own cup up so you can fill others who want to fill yours in return. If people dont see your value well in the nicest way possible it seems like a them problem, like I've said countless times you and your value to your own self is all that matters, let go of that armour you've taught yourself to hold onto everyday. It's really hard to illuminate and coach people stuck in yuck with yuck mindsets or yuck surroundings yuck friends or a yuck partner or people who play games due to trauma that armour goes up I get it, I see through people's armour, their wounding, their chaos, it's why I do what I do, to teach people strength to let that fear go, and man the realisation that some of you have fills my cup. I am always gonna be that person who sees peoples value even if you dont see mine or your own, but I'll gladly do it at a distance lovingly. Watch your space change when you love the heck out of yourself and your value and worth. Seeing that your value and worth isnt tied to that toxic partner you should walk away from or in an out friendship or a mistake or your regret or your pride or your ego or a wrong path you took, your worth and value is only tied to you. I simply am a person who will say if you want to be in my life then be in it, all the way in it, and I will love you with my whole heart. You should not have to teach people to see your value or worth, teach yourself to see it. Have a great weekend and Happy easter everyone xx #bigon #reciprocating #thisyear #pouring #whatyougive #whatyouget #teachyourself