what they don’t hear about are countless agree-to-disagree conversations over priorities, differences, values, and a lot more. they don’t hear about petty misunderstandings about dirty laundry, bedsheet color, type of appliances, errands - to only name a few. you’ll get to know the person deeper as the days go by and there are things about them that wouldn’t impress you - and vice-versa. trust me, it isn’t going to be easy. everyday, staying is a choice that you make. but let me tell you this, if the person you’re with makes the same effort as you do to keep your relationship, no matter what hardship you go through, you’ll both find yourselves staying in, talking it over, and thinking of ways to make things work. so to all couples who are about to enter this phase, be ready for the highs and lows. let the love you have be bolder than your pride. always listen more and talk less. 🙏🏻 #fyp #foryou #relationship #advice #couple #goals #livingtogether #marriage #life #love