Parents, teach your eldest child to mind their business. It’s not their responsibility to take care of their siblings or police their siblings. It’s not their responsibility to take care of all their friends with none taking care of them in return. They don’t have to save the world or fix society to have worth. If they are bossy, overbearing, and judgmental, look in the mirror. Obviously every child should learn to do good for others but not at the cost of their well being or ability to form balanced inter-dependent relationships. #firstborndaughter #firstborn #bossytoddler #codependent #overbearing #parentifiedchild