I understand this to an extent, but no one “needs” to be called stupid or weak. If your objective is to help, and to ensure that they receive the message - because you care about them - you should tailor your approach to their personality, so they’ll know it’s from a place of love. Most people don’t take kindly to harsh criticism, especially when they’re already struggling or having a weak moment. Using the notion of “harsh truth” as an excuse to berate them comes off as a disingenuous way to vent your frustrations about their situation. #jaijoha #realjaijoha #truth #friends #bhm #blackhistory #blackhistorymonth #opinion #views #perspective #love #thoughts #friend #mean #cruel #language #kindness #black #family #listen #learn #edutok #communication #harsh #real #honest #dating #relationship #fyp #popular #foryoupage #fup #trend #trending