Highly-requested video. Help your spouse heal. #childdevelopment #imago #couple #couplesgoals #parenting #attunement #appreciation #trauma #healing #marriage #husband #passive #passiveaggressive #avoidantattachment #wife #reactive #controlling #disorganizedattachment #dismissiveattachment #connection #fightorflight #familysystems #goldenchild #parentifiedchild #couplestherapy I”ll do #scapegoated and golden child (common too) and #lostchild with scapegoated/parentified (favorite but not common in therapy unless major crisis) eventually.

When a woman is truly done with you… aint no coming back from that. Tread lightly my friend… #loveyourperson #blacklovematters #emotionalhealing #trusttheprocess #couplestherapy #blackromance #emotionalfitness #mancavewithsouthsidedre #mancavepod #blackwomenoftiktok #dating2022 #marriagevibes

🔑 tip: you have to agree to RETURN with the intent to repair #relationshipgoals #attachment #relationshiptips #couplestherapy

#stitch with @mia_amini I knew this whiteboard would come in handy one day! #therapytiktok #therapytips #therapist #therapy #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #therapistadvice #advicetiktok #datingtips #couplestiktok #couplestherapy #datingadviceforwomen #datingadviceformen #psychologytips #therapistsoftictok #mentalhealth #healing #communcation #communicationskills #eft

If you could just stop breathing… #couples #relationships #couplestherapy #relationshipadvice

There's an incredible phenomenon that was discovered by the worlds best researchers in the field of romantic relationships. It's a phenomenon called the negative cycle. It's an observable pattern that you can find in nearly every romantic relationship. This pattern is exaggerated when someone with an anxious attachment is paired up with someone with an avoidant attachment. What researchers found is that when couples are stuck in the negative cycle, they become more fearful, anxious and reactive, which creates conflict and disconnection. This negative cycle is where underlying fears that stemmed from childhood are provoked, such as the fear of not being good enough to fear of abandonment the fear of rejection and so on. I have been privileged to work with some of the worlds, best therapist who have worked directly with these researchers to find tangible ways of getting out of the negative cycle. I'm going to be teaching you how to get out of the negative cycle for free this month during my live workshop called the Connected, Safe, Secure Workshop! You can sign up through the link in my bio. Make sure to sign up today because space is limited! #healthyrelationships #connection #securerelationships #secureattachment #couplestherapist #couplestherapy

If he’s never allowed in a Marshall’s again, we know why 🤣🤣🤣 #couplescomedy #husbandsbelike #marshallsfinds #comedy #couplegoals #marshalls #relationships #shopping #shoppingtherapy #couplestherapy #laughoutloud #couplelife #marriedlife

This is definitely a red flag in relationships and needs to be addressed. Do not fall for the bate of arguing about word choice, exact definitions and fact checking. Instead bring light to this being a deflection from the original topic. The only way this dynamic can be healed and repaired is if the person with unhealed judgment wounds becomes aware of them, sees this as a defense mechanism and is motivated to heal and repair the relationship. Most of the time people who do this are completely unaware they are even deflecting. It’s subconscious. Awareness is everything. The Inner Work of Relationships can help, but only for couples and individuals who are actually ready to look at themselves and takd accountability for the unhealthy dynamics they bring into the relationship. #couplestherapy #theinnerworkofrelationships #marriageproblems #couplescounseling #marriageadvice #marriagetherapy #husbandwife #redflagsinrelationships #couplestips #relationshipadvice

Headed to couples therapy #pregnant #couplestherapy #37weekspregnant

Is your partner never in the mood for s3x? #psychologist #mood #empathy #couplestherapy #couples #partner

5 questions to ask your bf when you are bored and want to argue. PROCEED WITH CAUTION note: in reality, some of these questions can lead to a deeper understanding of each other! I love asking these types of questions with my partner. #relationshipquestions #questions #questionstoask #questionstoaskyourpartner #wouldyoustilllovemeifiwasaworm #questionstoaskyourboyfriend #questionstoaskyourgirlfriend #couplestherapy #marriagecounseling #healthyrelationships #happycouple

Today’s secret sex tip: a harsh truth. Check out the link in my bio for a free ebook 🌹 #psychologistsoftiktok #weareapi #bedroomtalk #couplestherapy

#fyp #fypシ #psychologist #psychologistoftiktok #psychologistsoftiktok #relationships #relationshipadvice #dating #datingadvice #marriage #marriageadvice #couples #couplestherapy #tipsandtricks #funfacts #affair #affair #infidelity #love #bold #confidence #monkey #emoji

Replying to @Jill Bosshard Scheduled Intimacy #Couplestherapy #marriage #relationships

The book is The Inner Work of Relationships and it is the holy grail of relationship books! If you're looking for a book to help you heal dysfunctional relationship patterns, stop self-sabotage, and want to learn exactly how to co-create a healthy, lasting, and conscious relationship, this book is for you! The Inner Work of Relationships will take you and your partner on a hero's journey through the heart to heal your inner-child wounds and release dysfunctional patterns. By learning how to resolve common relationship problems using the 15 themes of consciousness, couples can finally embrace a life of true freedom and lasting happiness together. Through mastering The Inner Work and adopting a conscious, spiritual approach to relationships, you and your partner will break from self-sabotage and realize your potential for co-creating a healthy love. If you are a human and you want to be in love, this book is for you. *This is a spiritual book that draws from many ancient wisdom traditions including Hinduism, Buddhism, Christianity, yoga philosophy, and more. All are welcome! #theinnerworkofrelationships #relationshiptips #problemsinrelationships #selfimprovementbooks #relationshipbooks #couplestherapy #healthyrelationships #couplescounseling #relationshipgoals #relationshipgoals #relationshiptips

📖 The Inner Work of Relationships is available now in our Tiktok Shop! PRIMARY EMOTION: Hopelessness TRIGGER: Inability to cope and overwhelm ROOT PROGRAM: What’s the point? TRAUMAS: Age-inappropriate responsibilities, abuse, life-altering loss/change, overwhelming circumstances, compounded negative consequences, poverty UNMET INNER CHILD NEEDS: Feeling supported DEFENSE MECHANISM OVERCOMPENSATING: Refuse to ask for help, Saying “yes” when they don’t have the capacity, denial of limits, self-sacrificing, malnourishment DEFENSE MECHANISM UNDERCOMPENSATING: Depression, Dissociation disorders, detachment, isolation, anxiety, PTSD, paralysis, numbness COMMON RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS: Constant arguing over the stresses of life, one partner feeling like they have to do everything, one partner being depressed and apathetic, exhausting shared life circumstances, extreme financial struggles and debt, difficulty co-parenting, struggling to get by and make ends meet #theinnerworkofrelationships #theinnerwork #theinnerworkalbum #relationshipproblems #redagsinrelationships #marriageproblems #husbandwife #marriagecounseling #relationshipadvice #relationshiphealing #consciousrelationships #relationshiptips #couplescounseling #couplestherapy

#CapCut #reddit My Wife KEEPS Throwing Divorce in My Face Over EVERYTHING I Just Agreed And LEFT With 5 Month UPDATE #divorcedparents #marriedproblems #marriageadvice #reddittruestories #relationshipadvice #redditrelationshipadvice #marriedyoungcheck #marriagecounseling #couplestherapy

#MarriageTherapy #JoustingCouple #BlowingOffSteam #CouplesTherapy #RelationshipGoals 

We’re married - Talkspace edition Therapy made easy with @Talkspace - Therapy For All #TalkspacePartner #Ad #couplestherapy #couples #relationships #couplecomedy

Cant catch a break even when im on one lol #fyp #maid #slave #foryoupage #fypシ #housewife #sahm #singlemarried #motherhood #imtiredofthisgrandpa #imtired #clean #cleantok #cleanwithme #couplestiktok #couplestherapy #helpme #singlemom #dobetter #momsoftiktok #sahmsoftiktok #fypシ゚viral

Learning to PAUSE when I feel triggered has literally saved my life. Been a long road dealing with anger and I still have to constantly be mindful of it. #angry #angerissues #emotionalintelligence #mentalhealth #spiritualitytiktok #couplestherapy #realtionships

You think you know your girlfriend? How would she dress her daughter? #youthinkyouknowyourgf #youthinkyouknowher #youthinkyouknowyourgirlfriend #toddlerfashion #babygirl #babytok #babyfever #toddlersoftiktok #couplesquestions #couplestherapy #daughter #daughterlove

What i learned from spending thousands in Couples therapy! #couplestherapy #couplesoftiktok #couplesoftiktok #therapy #therapytiktok #relationshipgoals #relationshipadvice #advicetiktok #relationshiptips #resentment

Take your focus off the problems and focus on the solutions. #innerwork #theinnerwork #consciousrelationships #repairingyourheart #relationshipstruggles #marriageadvice #couplescounseling #relationshiptips #relationshipproblems #couplestherapy #consciousrelationships #healthyrelationships #relationshipgoals

What do you think about skipping phases? Has it been helpful or hurtful in the past? #psychologytips #therapytiktok #therapytips #therapist #therapy #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #therapistadvice #couplestiktok #couplestherapy #advicetiktok #datingtips

What goes through a guys head during intimacy? #couples #couplestok #spicytok #couplestherapy #therapistadvice

What if one person is anxious and the other is avoidant? #innerwork #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #consciousrelationships #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachmentstyle #avoidantattachmentstyle #couplescounseling #couplestherapy

A difficult but really important truth about arguments and conflict in healthy relationships! #relationshiptips #relationshipadvice #healthyrelationships #couplestherapy

Over 50% of marriages end in divorce, so how do you defy the odds?? 🤔 The Gottman Doctors came on the podcast to discuss how to repair a relationship, why societal norms like ‘hook-up’ culture is destroying our dating futur and the misconceptions about relationships. EPISODE OUT NOW ‼️🙏🏽 #thediaryofaceo #thegottmans #relationships #couplestherapy #marriage #gottmaninstitute #advice

Overly critical partner in relationships Nagging, nitpicking, and criticizing are all signs of unhealed wounds of judgment manifesting in your relationship. 📖 The Inner Work of Relationships book is available now in our Tiktok shop! #theinnerworkbook #theinnerwork #theinnerworkofrelationships #criticalpeople #criticalparent #criticalpartner #naggingwife #nagging #complainingwife #conplaininghusband #perfectionism #perfectionist #fightingwithyourpartner #problemsinrelationship #couplestherapy #couplescounseling #marriageadvice #marriagetips

Devalue and Dissmissive Behavior #couplestherapy #marriage #relationshipadvice #datingadvice

Watch my latest video to learn why… #fyp #fypシ #drdarienzo #darienzopsychology #psychologist #clinicalpsychologist #r#relationshipdoctordating ##datingadvice#marriage #marriageadvice #couples #couplestherapy #funfacts #tipsanstricks #happycouple #socialmedia #evolutionarypsychology #bold #confidence #dontcry

#duet with @Casey Smith communication changes EVERYTHING #hypervigilance #communication #relationships #marraige #therapy #couplestherapy

This is “the pill that kills” with @jayshetty #relationshipadvice #relationshipproblems #toxicrelationshipcheck #clinicalpsychologist #therapistsontiktok #relationshipcoach #couplescounseling #couplestherapy

Full video playing Couples Therapy with Nat and Jake is out now! #couplestherapy #fanjoy #dating #couplesquiz #nathalycuevas

This is how you give reassurance in relationships and avoid resentment in relationships by doing the inner work together and healing your inner child wounds and trauma together. #relationships #innerworkofrelationships #consciousrelationships #nonharmingcommunication #communicationskills #healthyrelationships #resentmentinrelationships #reassuranceinrelationships #innerworkbook #theinnerworkofrelationships #couplescoaching #couplestherapy

Storytime about my feral wife😂😂 #wife #husband #couplecomedy #couplegoals #couplestherapy #couple

The wound of distrust: When we have been hurt in the past it makes it easy for us to slip into fear of being hurt again in our current relationships. Our mind will often project its fears onto our current relationship, even if there’s no actual concern but our mind convinces us there is, or might be. The best way to navigate this wound is to heal it through open communication and vulnerability around our needs for reassurance and security as we rebuild trust. The most important part that helps this be successful is for the person who is distrusting to be honest about their vulnerabilities based on past hurts and allow their partner to show up in a new way for them by providing comfort and reassurance. The most common pitfall is the other partner will be defensive and annoyed. This is a red flag and shows either they’re taking it personal as if they’ve done something wrong when they haven’t. Or it will be a sign they aren’t comfortable providing that reassurance because they aren’t being fully honest about something. Only honesty and accountability will help uncover which one it is, hence the need for open and honest communication to help heal this wound. However on the other side of this healing process is trust, loyalty, a stronger relationship through the bonding of navigating the human condition together with transparency and vulnerability. You got this! 📖🤓 Read The Inner Work book for more! #innerwork #consciousrelationships #relationshipcounselling #couplestherapy #trustissues #relationshipadvice

Signs your in a TOXIC relationship, coming from someone who used to be TOXIC AF #toxicrelationship #toxic #relationshipgoals #relationshipsdvice #relationshiptips #relationshipstorytime #couplestherapy #therapy #whatilearnedintherapy #therapytiktok

#anxiety #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #reactiveattachment #couplestherapy #marriage #therapist #psychologist #personality #corebeliefs #terryreal #relationship #bigfive #forfun #anxiousdisorganized #hippy #internalizing #externalizing #husband #wife #girlfirend #boyfriend #conflict #emotion #defensemechanism #control

#avoidant #reactive #marriage #couples #communication #therapy #couplestherapy #vulnerable #food #meal

Be very careful my friends. There are a lot of things that happen that we cannot see. 👀 #relationships #God #love #trustissues #security #christian #relationship #marriage #marriedlife #conspiracy #conspiracytiktok #therapy #couplestherapy #couplestiktok #couples #foryoupage #fyp #spirituality #religious #happy #beautiful #relationshipadvice #trust #success #mentality #viralvideo #viraltiktok #viral #spirituality

4 TOXIC traits that will RUIN your relationship according to my couple therapist! Do you do any of these in your relationship? #therapy #couplestherapy #relationships #relationshipadvice #4horsemen #couplestiktok #coupleadvice #couplegoals #relationshiptips #relationshipproblems

You can get a copy of The Inner Work of Relationships in our tiktok shop! #marriage #marriedcouple #couplestherapy #theinnerworkofrelationships #couplesadvice #marriageadvice #marriageadviceformen #marriageadviceforwomen #relationshipproblems #healthyrelationships #consciouscommunication #husbandwife #defensivehusband #couplesgoals #relationships #marriagelife

Can I write it off as a tax refund? 🤷🏻‍♀️ #single #couplestherapy #fyp #therapy

Did you know 10% of men will cheat on their partner while they’re pregnant? #fyp #fypシ #drdarienzo #darienzopsychology #psychologist #clinicalpsychologist #relationshipdoctor #dating #datingadvice #marriage #marriageadvice #couples #couplestherapy #funfacts #tipsandtricks #infidelity #cheating #riskfactors #pregnancy #bold #confidence #evolutionarypsychology #impregnant #thatsamazing

My name is Trevor and I am a licensed marriage and family therapist. I am hosting a FREE event on March 25th called “Connected, Safe and Secure” where I will be giving you a road map to creating healthy relationships. We will look at everything from increasing emotional regulation to facing the trauma of the past as you look to build more healthy, loving, and thriving relationships. Check out my bio for the link where you can reserve your seat! #healthyrelationships #securerelationships #marriagetherapist #couplestherapy #couplestherapist #secureattachment

This was the video that started the haircut payback #CouplesTherapy #CouplesPranks #BadHaircut #Paybacks

Understanding Your Partner #couplestherapy #relationshipadvice #datingadvice #marriage

Don't you say anything about John Legend! #ChrissyTeigen #Therapy #CouplesTherapy #Roleplay #roleplaying #therapist #sextherapist #JohnLegend