Embrace your energy to create the SPARK ⚡️ 👇🏽 Opposites attract. And in dating, it’s helpful to become clear on your leading energy so that you can attract an opposite and create polarity with your partner (the spark). While we often think of men as masculine and women as feminine, both energies exist within us and are divorced from our construct of gender. So while masculine energy is typically associated with men, the truth is, throughout the day, we naturally balance masculine and feminine traits to create harmony. In Chinese philosophy, these forces are called Yin and Yang. Yin traits include creativity, intuition and stillness whereas Yang traits are assertiveness, dominance and action. Like day-night, inhale-exhale and north-south, Yin cannot exist with the Yang. In a relationship context, I’ve found it incredibly helpful to balance energies with my partner. For example, if she has come home from work in her Yang, I’ll embody more Yin to create harmony. It also helps spark more passion when both parties embrace their opposing energies. #masculine #feminine #polarity