We all have past experiences and hidden motivations that shape our interactions. Often, in relationships, our significant others might not have the same boundaries we expect, especially with their families. Before rushing to judge, we should understand the backstory behind their appeasement and the secondary gains they achieve from their actions. Empathy, understanding, and patience are key. Love isn't about changing our partners, but understanding them better and helping each other grow. Comment an experience where you’ve seen this to be true, when has listening to your partner’s past experience helped them understand their family dynamics more? #relationshipadvice #poweroflistening #couplescounseling #secondarygains #understanding #matthiasjbarker #relationshipadvice #boundaries