Introduction: This is a tiktok hashtag called attachmentissues. The music has now attracted more than 16.6K videos and 1.8B views. It is a very popular content. The following is videos that related to this music.
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#foryou #fyp #foryoupage #pain #heartbreak #heartache #broken #brokentok #paintiktok #quotes #sad #him #her #Relationship #heartbroken#mentalhealth #inpain #3amtok #hurting#painful #overthinking #tired #exhausted #tiredoftrying #igiveup #givingup #Love #lonely #lovehurts #lovequotes #sadlove #imissyou #missyou #iloveyou #imfine #stillloveyou #youbrokeme #inlove #youhurtme. #attachment #attached #actingokay #actingfine #imokay #imnotokay #ex #attachmentissues #perfectpartner #coupletok
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randomgirll777
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#attachment #hookupculture #relationships #attachmentissues #fyp #attachmentcoach
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Adam Lane Smith | Psychology
3 years_ago
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#foryou #fyp #foryoupage #healing #healingheart #mendingmind #findingclosure #movingon #loveyourself #lovingyourself #selflovejourney #words #wordquotes #quotes #youareloved #thoughts #letitgo #feelings #gentlereminders #dailyreminders #thoughttok #feelings #feeltok #youaregoodenough #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #pain #heartbreak #heartache #broken #brokentok #paintiktok #quotes #sad #him #her #Relationship #heartbroken #mentalhealth #inpain #3amtok #hurting #painful #overthinking #tired #exhausted #tiredoftrying #igiveup #givingup #Love #lonely #lovehurts #lovequotes #sadlove #imissyou #missyou #iloveyou #imfine #stillloveyou #youbrokeme #inlove #youhurtme #attachment #attached #actingokay #actingfine #imokay #imnotokay #ex #attachmentissues #perfectpartner #coupletok #itiswhatitis #nevergoodenough #notenough #neverenough #bareminimum #effort #breakups #heartbroken #heartbroken💔 #lostwithoutyou #lostwithoutyourlove #imfallingapart #fallingapart #breakinginside #ineedyou #ineededyou #ithinkillmissyouforever #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #quotes #quotetok #quotetiktok #heartbreak #broken #feelings #feels #relationship #him #her #paintok #brokentok #pain #imokay #imfine #healing #heal #2am #3am #2amfeels #cantsleep #iloveyou #inlovewithyou #thinking #thoughts #cantstopthinkingofyou #stillloveyou #perfectpartner #perfectcouple #coupletok #couplequotes #effort #lostwithoutyou #breakup #ineedyou #bestfriend #youbrokemefirst #love #tired #exhausted #givingup #giveup #mentalhealth #3amtok #hurting #lovehurts #lonely #tiredofbeingalone #trust #trustissues #youdeservebetter #youreworthit #loveyourself #moveon #movingon #gettingoverit #movedon #overit #itsdone #itsover #firstlove #secondlove #unloved #youareloved #inspirationalquotes
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randomgirll777
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#foryou #fyp #foryoupage #healing #healingheart #mendingmind #findingclosure #movingon #loveyourself #lovingyourself #selflovejourney #words #wordquotes #quotes #youareloved #thoughts #letitgo #feelings #gentlereminders #dailyreminders #thoughttok #feelings #feeltok #youaregoodenough #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #pain #heartbreak #heartache #broken #brokentok #paintiktok #quotes #sad #him #her #Relationship #heartbroken #mentalhealth #inpain #3amtok #hurting #painful #overthinking #tired #exhausted #tiredoftrying #igiveup #givingup #Love #lonely #lovehurts #lovequotes #sadlove #imissyou #missyou #iloveyou #imfine #stillloveyou #youbrokeme #inlove #youhurtme #attachment #attached #actingokay #actingfine #imokay #imnotokay #ex #attachmentissues #perfectpartner #coupletok #itiswhatitis #nevergoodenough #notenough #neverenough #bareminimum #effort #breakups #heartbroken #heartbroken💔 #lostwithoutyou #lostwithoutyourlove #imfallingapart #fallingapart #breakinginside #ineedyou #ineededyou #ithinkillmissyouforever #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #quotes #quotetok #quotetiktok #heartbreak #broken #feelings #feels #relationship #him #her #paintok #brokentok #pain #imokay #imfine #healing #heal #2am #3am #2amfeels #cantsleep #iloveyou #inlovewithyou #thinking #thoughts #cantstopthinkingofyou #stillloveyou #perfectpartner #perfectcouple #coupletok #couplequotes #effort #lostwithoutyou #breakup #ineedyou #bestfriend #youbrokemefirst #love #tired #exhausted #givingup #giveup #mentalhealth #3amtok #hurting #lovehurts #lonely #tiredofbeingalone #trust #trustissues #youdeservebetter #youreworthit #loveyourself #moveon #movingon #gettingoverit #movedon #overit #itsdone #itsover #firstlove #secondlove #unloved #youareloved
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randomgirll777
2 years_ago
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🚨LIVE Program for Anxious lovers - Enrolling now: LINK IN BIO🚨When triggered, anxiously attached lovers often react aggressively because they are hyper-focused on preventing their biggest fear from happening: abandonment. They'll do whatever it takes, even if their protest behaviors are detrimental (pushing their partners away or putting them on a spot to see how they respond). Where does this come from? They typically grew up with inconsistent and unreliable parents, leading them as children to wonder: "Can I depend on you?" "Do you love me?" They never felt *quite* safe or secure growing up, creating abandonment beliefs:  "People aren't going to be there for me." "I'm not worthy of their love." If left unresolved, these beliefs get carried INTO one's adulthood. Deep down, anxious partners subconsciously hope their partners will fill the void by consistently loving them, no matter what (even if the behaviors are detrimental).  "If I push them away or act out and they still love me, that means I am lovable and that they won't leave me." However, this is neither a healthy way to heal nor sustainable; it'll ultimately wear down or break the relationship. The good news is that attachment styles are not permanent and can change. Some things to help you shift from anxious to secure: - Making the connection between past experiences and current behaviors. - Learning to provide love and acceptance for ourselves. - Learning how to soothe our anxiety. - Developing a loving relationship with our inner child. - Learning how to communicate our feelings/needs in a secure way. —— Do you want to go from anxious to secure? Then, this program is for you!! • Live workshops, practical guidance + Homework • 1:1 Private Coaching with me. • Community with other like-minded people Limited spots. Starting soon. Book a consult call with me to see if it’s the right fit for you! LINK IN BIO . . . . #anxiousattachment #fearfulavoidant  #relationshipanxiety #attachmenttrauma #anxietyhealing #relationshipproblems #datingproblems #attachmentissues
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Coach Sarah Yoo
1 years_ago
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Me & my therapist chat anxious attachment styles on ep. 38 of our podcast 🌹 link in bio podcast #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #anxiousgirl #anxioustok #anxioustiktok #anxioushabits #toxictok #relatable #MentalHealthMatters #mentalhealthawareness #healingjourney #healingtiktok #healingtok #traumatok #traumahealing #trauma #attachment #mytherapistsaid#attachmentstyle #attachmentissues #attachmenttheory #therapy #freetherapy #therapist #dating #datingtips #datingadvice #datingcoach
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The Therapy Girl
2 years_ago
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This is why I insist that parents need support: they’re healing themselves, they’re healing their children, they often need to heal some parts of their marriage, and for many parents, they’re also supporting the physical + medical needs of THEIR OWN aging parents in the background! And ha, not to mention if they’re employed 🙃🙃 This is why family therapy is so important. We MUST begin by supporting the parents so that they can lead the healing of their family. In the family therapy that I have been extensively trained in and practice, Emotionally Focused Family Therapy, we divide therapy into two phases: 1) parental openness 2) child vulnerability. We do not bring the child and parent together until the parent is open to the child’s needs and vulnerability. This protects the child from getting hurt further and sets the parent up to successfully work with their child. I decided to role play this particular dyad 1) bc I see it in around 1/3rd of mom-daughter dyads that I’ve worked with 2) I also saw a good bit of this in the comment section of that viral post about parents taking accountability. More than one comment outright said, “they should validate me.” Lol. My aim is not to attack mothers or fathers. It is to show where things go wrong and how that creates pain that then becomes a legacy of pain when we pass it down to our children. Family therapy involves examining our own relationships and experiences as children, identifying the pain that we have there, and working to heal both our own pain and that of our children’s. And this is what the work looks like right from the first parent session. #familytherapy #family #mom #dad #kids #dysfunctionalfamily #childhood #childhoodtrauma #cptsd #trauma #nocontact #nocontactwithparent #relationship #telationships #communication #attachment #attachmentstyle #attachmentissues #anxiousattachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #therapy #therapysessions #therapytiktok #therapist #mentalhealth #skit #roleplay #fyp #foryou #parenting #parenting101 #parentingtip #parents #parent #parentifiedchild
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Steph the Attachment Therapist
1 years_ago
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FAKE⚠️⚠️ #lcvelyastxrism #bestfriend #fy #fyp @lilah #relatable #fyp #foryoupage #school #fyp #bestfriend #foryou #fypシ #fypage #tylerthecreator #school #attachment #attachmentissues #bestiegoals #friendship #rideoride #zodiac #zodiacs #zodiacsign #zodiacsigns #astrology #astrologytiktok #astrologia #loveyou #affectionate #nonaffectionate #bestfriend #fyp #ftp
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✨Z•O•D•I•A•C S•I•G•N•S✨
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lol idk if this is too niche but i feel like i’ve seen this combo a lot #attachmentissues #daddyissues
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ayanna :))
3 years_ago
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The Inner Work can help you understand, address, and heal any and all human issues you may find yourself struggling with. In the case of anxiety our self-esteem development has been stunted because of exposure to wounds of distrust. Whether from parents, friends, abuse, society, etc. we have been imprinted with a deep sense of fear of the unknown. If we don’t reconcile this subconscious imprint we become anxious in our life. The healing path for this person is to accept that while painful things can happen in this life, we must trust OURSELVES that we will keep ourselves safe and know what to do in each moment. This focuses our healing on our own discernment and respect for caution. With this trust of ourselves established we can move through the unknown and the possible dangers of the world knowing that we will be ok despite the possiblities of hurt. This then moves us up in our development to face our wound of inadequacy, or in other words our ability to develop skills and accept we may have to learn new things that we currently don’t know. This is a huge step in our self-esteem because instead of being stuck in fear, we are able to be face our fears and learn new skills to overcome them, rather than letting them overcome us. When we feel adequate in our abilities to navigate the unknowns of life, we get one huge step closer to confidence and peace of mind. Get The Inner Work to learn more about the healing journey and how to reach your full potential of a life of true freedom and lasting happiness. Why am I anxious Where does anxiety come from Why do I have anxiety Why are they so anxious Fear of the unknown Anxious attachment #innerwork #theinnerwork #theinnerworkbook #innerchildhealing #shadowwork #selfhelpbooks #traumahealing #innerchildwork #innerchild #booksthatchangedmylife #healingjourney #attachmentissues #attachmentstyle #mentalhealth #anxietytips #anxietydisorder #anxiety
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The Inner Work
1 years_ago
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Tired of feeling this way? 😌 Come to my “How to Communicate Your Feelings Without Starting a Fight” LIVE Workshop! Learn how to start these types of conversations in a brand new way that will have your partner actually want to listen and understand what you’re feeling. Or Book a Consultation Call with me if youd like to work 1:1 togerher 🥰 #relationshipcoachingtip #attachmentissues #relationshipcoach #lifecoach #enotions #subconciousmind #attchmenttheory #secureattachment #marriagecoach #communicatewithyourpartner #communicatebetter
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Erica | Relationship Coach IFS
2 years_ago
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If anxious partners could have the words for their hearts…. (please share so others can see ❤️) If you struggle with anxious tendencies in your relationship, please know that it doesn't make you a bad person. You've learned the habits because they helped you cope in some way, meaning… they can be shifted. This post doesn't condone or encourage unhealthy behaviors or tell anyone to neglect their needs. Each partner must actively take responsibility for their actions, communicate better, and work on building healthier habits for a secure relationship. The hope behind this letter is; 1. For the partners to better understand their anxious lovers. Deep down, they are terrified of being inadequate and being abandoned. 2. For the anxious partners to understand where their actions might be coming from so that they can compassionately guide themselves towards growth. I hope this encourages you to allow compassion and understanding to guide interactions with yourself and your partner. Here's to understanding ❤️ -------- Are you an anxious lover? Do you want to learn how to communicate like this, to open up conversations rather than push your partners away? Ready to become secure and confident in yourself? Come and join the 'Secure Love Program.' Book a consultation call to see if the program is the right fit for you! (Link in bio) • Lessons, practical guidance + Homework • 1:1 coaching with me me. • Community with other like-minded people LINK IN BIO . . . . #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #disorganizedattachment #attachmentissues #communicationiskey #relationshipproblems #relationshiphealing #nonviolentcommunication
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Coach Sarah Yoo
1 years_ago
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If left unresolved, our attachment wounds will get carried into our adult relationships, where we repeat the same patterns until we can resolve them. Deep down, anxiously attached partners subconsciously hope their partners will heal their wounds by consistently loving them and showing up the way they wished their parents did for them. "If I can make sure they're happy with me, they'll be there for me, love me, and accept me as I am. And I'll finally feel enough." Although healthy, secure partners can help us on our healing journey, only relying on them is not healthy or sustainable. It'll likely push them away, as they'll feel defeated and inadequate to love you the way you want them to be loved. The good news is that attachment styles are not permanent and can change. Some things you can do to heal the attachment wounds within: - Making the connection between past experiences and current behaviors. - Learning to provide love and acceptance for ourselves. - Learning how to soothe our anxiety. - Developing a loving relationship with our inner child. - Learning how to communicate our feelings/needs in a secure way. NOTE This doesn't apply to abusive or unhealthy relationships where anyone (no matter their attachment style) would feel anxious due to unhealthy behaviors from their partners. _______ Ready to go from anxious to secure? 🚨LIVE Secure Love Program🚨 • Live workshops + tools • 1:1 Private Coaching with me. • Community with other like-minded people 2 SPOTS LEFT Start next week. LINK IN BIO . . . . #anxiousattachment #disorganizedattachment #relationshipanxiety #attachmenttrauma #anxietyhealing #attachmentissues #relationshipproblems #anxiousattachmentstyle
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Coach Sarah Yoo
1 years_ago
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#foryou #fyp #foryoupage #healing #healingheart #mendingmind #findingclosure #movingon #loveyourself #lovingyourself #selflovejourney #words #wordquotes #quotes #youareloved #thoughts #letitgo #feelings #gentlereminders #dailyreminders #thoughttok #feelings #feeltok #youaregoodenough #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #pain #heartbreak #heartache #broken #brokentok #paintiktok #quotes #sad #him #her #Relationship #heartbroken #mentalhealth #inpain #3amtok #hurting #painful #overthinking #tired #exhausted #tiredoftrying #igiveup #givingup #Love #lonely #lovehurts #lovequotes #sadlove #imissyou #missyou #iloveyou #imfine #stillloveyou #youbrokeme #inlove #youhurtme #attachment #attached #actingokay #actingfine #imokay #imnotokay #ex #attachmentissues #perfectpartner #coupletok #itiswhatitis #nevergoodenough #notenough #neverenough #bareminimum #effort #breakups #heartbroken #heartbroken💔 #lostwithoutyou #lostwithoutyourlove #imfallingapart #fallingapart #breakinginside #ineedyou #ineededyou #ithinkillmissyouforever #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #quotes #quotetok #quotetiktok #heartbreak #broken #feelings #feels #relationship #him #her #paintok #brokentok #pain #imokay #imfine #healing #heal #2am #3am #2amfeels #cantsleep #iloveyou #inlovewithyou #thinking #thoughts #cantstopthinkingofyou #stillloveyou #perfectpartner #perfectcouple #coupletok #couplequotes #effort #lostwithoutyou #breakup #ineedyou #bestfriend #youbrokemefirst #love #tired #exhausted #givingup #giveup #mentalhealth #3amtok #hurting #lovehurts #lonely #tiredofbeingalone #trust #trustissues #youdeservebetter #youreworthit #loveyourself #moveon #movingon #gettingoverit #movedon #overit #itsdone #itsover #firstlove #secondlove #unloved #youareloved #inspirationalquotes #positivequotes #healingjourney #heal
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randomgirll777
1 years_ago
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Replying to @stewurt change is uncomfortable but worth it in the end. #attachmentissues #healing #mentalhealth
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Chayse Byrd
1 years_ago
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Attachment Style. #attachmentstyle#attachmentstyles#attachmenttheory#attachmentissues#relationshiptips#relationshipadvice#attachment
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Attachment Styles
4 years_ago
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pls my attachment issues r so bad #emmachamberlain #podcast #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #attachment #attachmentissues
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marissa wulff
3 years_ago
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#relationship #hubungan #effort #bareminimum #attachmentissues #attachment
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bukan aliciasurya🤔
1 years_ago
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#foryou #fyp #foryoupage #pain #heartbreak #heartache #broken #brokentok #paintiktok #quotes #sad #him #her #Relationship #heartbroken #mentalhealth #inpain #3amtok #hurting #painful #overthinking #tired #exhausted #tiredoftrying #igiveup #givingup #Love #lonely #lovehurts #lovequotes #sadlove #imissyou #missyou #iloveyou #imfine #stillloveyou #youbrokeme #inlove #youhurtme #attachment #attached #actingokay #actingfine #imokay #imnotokay #ex #attachmentissues #perfectpartner #coupletok #itiswhatitis #nevergoodenough #notenough #neverenough #bareminimum #effort #breakups #heartbroken #heartbroken💔 #lostwithoutyou #lostwithoutyourlove #imfallingapart #fallingapart #breakinginside #ineedyou #ineededyou #ithinkillmissyouforever
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randomgirll777
2 years_ago
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Replying to @Sarah Cole The Inner Work can help you understand, address, and heal any and all human issues you may find yourself struggling with. In the case of anxiety our self-esteem development has been stunted because of exposure to wounds of distrust. Whether from parents, friends, abuse, society, etc. we have been imprinted with a deep sense of fear of the unknown. If we don’t reconcile this subconscious imprint we become anxious in our life. The healing path for this person is to accept that while painful things can happen in this life, we must trust OURSELVES that we will keep ourselves safe and know what to do in each moment. This focuses our healing on our own discernment and respect for caution. With this trust of ourselves established we can move through the unknown and the possible dangers of the world knowing that we will be ok despite the possiblities of hurt. This then moves us up in our development to face our wound of inadequacy, or in other words our ability to develop skills and accept we may have to learn new things that we currently don’t know. This is a huge step in our self-esteem because instead of being stuck in fear, we are able to be face our fears and learn new skills to overcome them, rather than letting them overcome us. When we feel adequate in our abilities to navigate the unknowns of life, we get one huge step closer to confidence and peace of mind. Get The Inner Work to learn more about the healing journey and how to reach your full potential of a life of true freedom and lasting happiness. Why am I anxious Where does anxiety come from Why do I have anxiety Why are they so anxious Fear of the unknown Anxious attachment #innerwork #theinnerwork #theinnerworkbook #innerchildhealing #shadowwork #selfhelpbooks #traumahealing #innerchildwork #innerchild #booksthatchangedmylife #healingjourney #attachmentissues #attachmentstyle #mentalhealth #anxietytips #anxietydisorder #anxiety
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The Inner Work
1 years_ago
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Your attachment stule can make or break your relationship. The most important thing is that you’re aware if your attachment styles and attachment issues so you can manage your triggers and your emotions :) #attachmentstyle #attachmentissues #attachmenttheory #psychologytips #datingadvice #datingpsychology
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Charie G | Psychology
1 years_ago
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😚#relatable #relatablecontent #toxic #relationship #relationships #ex #bf #gf #narcissist #pride #attachmentissues #love #lovestory
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Leonarobertss
1 years_ago
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Overthinking ALL.THE.TIME 🥲😩 help. #overthinkingang #overthoughts #overthesethoughts #fyp #mentalhealth #attachmentstyles #attachmentstylesanddating #attachmentissues
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Mils | Sex Educator / UGC
1 years_ago
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#foryou #fyp #foryoupage #healing #healingheart #mendingmind #findingclosure #movingon #loveyourself #lovingyourself #selflovejourney #words #wordquotes #quotes #youareloved #thoughts #letitgo #feelings #gentlereminders #dailyreminders #thoughttok #feelings #feeltok #youaregoodenough #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #pain #heartbreak #heartache #broken #brokentok #paintiktok #quotes #sad #him #her #Relationship #heartbroken #mentalhealth #inpain #3amtok #hurting #painful #overthinking #tired #exhausted #tiredoftrying #igiveup #givingup #Love #lonely #lovehurts #lovequotes #sadlove #imissyou #missyou #iloveyou #imfine #stillloveyou #youbrokeme #inlove #youhurtme #attachment #attached #actingokay #actingfine #imokay #imnotokay #ex #attachmentissues #perfectpartner #coupletok #itiswhatitis #nevergoodenough #notenough #neverenough #bareminimum #effort #breakups #heartbroken #heartbroken💔 #lostwithoutyou #lostwithoutyourlove #imfallingapart #fallingapart #breakinginside #ineedyou #ineededyou #ithinkillmissyouforever #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #quotes #quotetok #quotetiktok #heartbreak #broken #feelings #feels #relationship #him #her #paintok #brokentok #pain #imokay #imfine #healing #heal #2am #3am #2amfeels #cantsleep #iloveyou #inlovewithyou #thinking #thoughts #cantstopthinkingofyou #stillloveyou #perfectpartner #perfectcouple #coupletok #couplequotes #effort #lostwithoutyou #breakup #ineedyou #bestfriend #youbrokemefirst #love #tired #exhausted #givingup #giveup #mentalhealth #3amtok #hurting #lovehurts #lonely #tiredofbeingalone #trust #trustissues #youdeservebetter #youreworthit #loveyourself #moveon #movingon #gettingoverit #movedon #overit #itsdone #itsover #firstlove #secondlove #unloved #youareloved #inspirationalquotes #positivequotes #healingjourney #heal
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leah 💌
1 years_ago
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that office gives me ptsd now 💀💀 #fyp #foryou #attachmentissues #❤️ #relate
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Brittany Marie
2 years_ago
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Let’s talk about attachment #therapywithdrmariel #attachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #attachmentissues #reparenting #reparentyourself #trend #fyp #fy
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Dr. Mariel Buqué
3 years_ago
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How to break a soul tie and break attachment issues. #ttsacl #attachmentissues #blackg#luxuryblackgirltiktok #manifestationmethod
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Iamyannaspeaks
1 years_ago
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🚨LIVE Program for Pursuer/Anxious lovers - Enrolling now: LINK IN BIO 🚨 Even though distancers* can appear cold or unbothered, deep down, most feel anxious and overwhelmed during conflicts (* also called ‘Avoidants’). They withdraw not because they want to hurt you but because they often don’t know HOW to deal with their big feelings. They learned to withdraw to protect themselves; hiding behind a wall is THEIR VERSION OF A SAFE SPACE. My hope with this post is not to encourage anyone to stay in unhealthy relationships. Rather, I hope this will help some of you understand your distancer/avoidant partners with compassion, which will help you deal with conflicts better as the Pursuer/Anxious partner. It’s common for Pursuers (Anxious) to be in a relationship with Distancers (avoidants) because their deepest fears are confirmed in each other. Pursuers’ deepest fear is that they are too much, aren’t good enough, and will be abandoned. Distancers’ deepest fear is that they’ll be overwhelmed, controlled, or smothered if they get too close to people. In such relationships, the Pursuer-Distancer Cycle is a common pattern in which many couples get stuck, which can drain or break many relationships. If you struggle with this, please know that you aren’t alone, and with willingness and effort, it can be changed. NOTES: - This doesn’t apply to healthy distancing. In some situations, taking a break and moving away from heated conversations can be GOOD for the relationship. - This doesn’t apply to abusive relationships or encouraging anyone to stay in unhealthy/unfulfilling relationships - you may need to re-evaluate it. ______ P.S. Are you the Pursuer (Anxious) partner? Do you want to break your anxious patterns and become secure in yourself and, therefore, in your relationship? 🌟Then the ‘Secure Love Program’ is for you!🌟 * LIVE workshops + tools + homework. * 1:1 Private Coaching with me. * Community with other like-minded people. Limited spots. Starting soon. BOOK A CONSULT CALL (LINK IN BIO)
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Coach Sarah Yoo
1 years_ago
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No contact dilakukan bukan berharap mantanmu balik lagi ke kamu, tapi no contact buat diri kamu sendiri. Kamu kembali menemukan dirimu lagi & menjernihkan pikiranmu untuk mempertimbangkan orang seperti apa yang layak masuk ke kehidupan kamu. #nocontact #attachmentstyle #attachmentissues #psychology #mentalhealth #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #insecure #depressedquotes
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dr. Yumna
1 years_ago
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Read comments for HOW to start making changes ❤️ (P.S Secure Love Group Program is OPEN for application!!) #anxiousattachment #relationshipcoach #marriagetips #attachmentissues #relationshipproblems101
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Coach Sarah Yoo
2 years_ago
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#foryou #fyp #foryoupage #pain #heartbreak #heartache #broken #brokentok #paintiktok #quotes #sad #him #her #Relationship #heartbroken#mentalhealth #inpain #3amtok #hurting#painful #overthinking #tired #exhausted #tiredoftrying #igiveup #givingup #Love #lonely #lovehurts #lovequotes #sadlove #imissyou #missyou #iloveyou #imfine #stillloveyou #youbrokeme #inlove #youhurtme. #attachment #attached #actingokay #actingfine #imokay #imnotokay #ex #attachmentissues #perfectpartner #coupletok
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randomgirll777
2 years_ago
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#attachment #hookupculture #relationships #attachmentissues #fyp #attachmentcoach
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Adam Lane Smith | Psychology
3 years_ago
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#foryou #fyp #foryoupage #healing #healingheart #mendingmind #findingclosure #movingon #loveyourself #lovingyourself #selflovejourney #words #wordquotes #quotes #youareloved #thoughts #letitgo #feelings #gentlereminders #dailyreminders #thoughttok #feelings #feeltok #youaregoodenough #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #pain #heartbreak #heartache #broken #brokentok #paintiktok #quotes #sad #him #her #Relationship #heartbroken #mentalhealth #inpain #3amtok #hurting #painful #overthinking #tired #exhausted #tiredoftrying #igiveup #givingup #Love #lonely #lovehurts #lovequotes #sadlove #imissyou #missyou #iloveyou #imfine #stillloveyou #youbrokeme #inlove #youhurtme #attachment #attached #actingokay #actingfine #imokay #imnotokay #ex #attachmentissues #perfectpartner #coupletok #itiswhatitis #nevergoodenough #notenough #neverenough #bareminimum #effort #breakups #heartbroken #heartbroken💔 #lostwithoutyou #lostwithoutyourlove #imfallingapart #fallingapart #breakinginside #ineedyou #ineededyou #ithinkillmissyouforever #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #quotes #quotetok #quotetiktok #heartbreak #broken #feelings #feels #relationship #him #her #paintok #brokentok #pain #imokay #imfine #healing #heal #2am #3am #2amfeels #cantsleep #iloveyou #inlovewithyou #thinking #thoughts #cantstopthinkingofyou #stillloveyou #perfectpartner #perfectcouple #coupletok #couplequotes #effort #lostwithoutyou #breakup #ineedyou #bestfriend #youbrokemefirst #love #tired #exhausted #givingup #giveup #mentalhealth #3amtok #hurting #lovehurts #lonely #tiredofbeingalone #trust #trustissues #youdeservebetter #youreworthit #loveyourself #moveon #movingon #gettingoverit #movedon #overit #itsdone #itsover #firstlove #secondlove #unloved #youareloved #inspirationalquotes
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randomgirll777
1 years_ago
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#foryou #fyp #foryoupage #healing #healingheart #mendingmind #findingclosure #movingon #loveyourself #lovingyourself #selflovejourney #words #wordquotes #quotes #youareloved #thoughts #letitgo #feelings #gentlereminders #dailyreminders #thoughttok #feelings #feeltok #youaregoodenough #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #pain #heartbreak #heartache #broken #brokentok #paintiktok #quotes #sad #him #her #Relationship #heartbroken #mentalhealth #inpain #3amtok #hurting #painful #overthinking #tired #exhausted #tiredoftrying #igiveup #givingup #Love #lonely #lovehurts #lovequotes #sadlove #imissyou #missyou #iloveyou #imfine #stillloveyou #youbrokeme #inlove #youhurtme #attachment #attached #actingokay #actingfine #imokay #imnotokay #ex #attachmentissues #perfectpartner #coupletok #itiswhatitis #nevergoodenough #notenough #neverenough #bareminimum #effort #breakups #heartbroken #heartbroken💔 #lostwithoutyou #lostwithoutyourlove #imfallingapart #fallingapart #breakinginside #ineedyou #ineededyou #ithinkillmissyouforever #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #quotes #quotetok #quotetiktok #heartbreak #broken #feelings #feels #relationship #him #her #paintok #brokentok #pain #imokay #imfine #healing #heal #2am #3am #2amfeels #cantsleep #iloveyou #inlovewithyou #thinking #thoughts #cantstopthinkingofyou #stillloveyou #perfectpartner #perfectcouple #coupletok #couplequotes #effort #lostwithoutyou #breakup #ineedyou #bestfriend #youbrokemefirst #love #tired #exhausted #givingup #giveup #mentalhealth #3amtok #hurting #lovehurts #lonely #tiredofbeingalone #trust #trustissues #youdeservebetter #youreworthit #loveyourself #moveon #movingon #gettingoverit #movedon #overit #itsdone #itsover #firstlove #secondlove #unloved #youareloved
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randomgirll777
2 years_ago
7348459779565636872
🚨LIVE Program for Anxious lovers - Enrolling now: LINK IN BIO🚨When triggered, anxiously attached lovers often react aggressively because they are hyper-focused on preventing their biggest fear from happening: abandonment. They'll do whatever it takes, even if their protest behaviors are detrimental (pushing their partners away or putting them on a spot to see how they respond). Where does this come from? They typically grew up with inconsistent and unreliable parents, leading them as children to wonder: "Can I depend on you?" "Do you love me?" They never felt *quite* safe or secure growing up, creating abandonment beliefs:  "People aren't going to be there for me." "I'm not worthy of their love." If left unresolved, these beliefs get carried INTO one's adulthood. Deep down, anxious partners subconsciously hope their partners will fill the void by consistently loving them, no matter what (even if the behaviors are detrimental).  "If I push them away or act out and they still love me, that means I am lovable and that they won't leave me." However, this is neither a healthy way to heal nor sustainable; it'll ultimately wear down or break the relationship. The good news is that attachment styles are not permanent and can change. Some things to help you shift from anxious to secure: - Making the connection between past experiences and current behaviors. - Learning to provide love and acceptance for ourselves. - Learning how to soothe our anxiety. - Developing a loving relationship with our inner child. - Learning how to communicate our feelings/needs in a secure way. —— Do you want to go from anxious to secure? Then, this program is for you!! • Live workshops, practical guidance + Homework • 1:1 Private Coaching with me. • Community with other like-minded people Limited spots. Starting soon. Book a consult call with me to see if it’s the right fit for you! LINK IN BIO . . . . #anxiousattachment #fearfulavoidant  #relationshipanxiety #attachmenttrauma #anxietyhealing #relationshipproblems #datingproblems #attachmentissues
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Coach Sarah Yoo
1 years_ago
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Me & my therapist chat anxious attachment styles on ep. 38 of our podcast 🌹 link in bio podcast #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #anxiousgirl #anxioustok #anxioustiktok #anxioushabits #toxictok #relatable #MentalHealthMatters #mentalhealthawareness #healingjourney #healingtiktok #healingtok #traumatok #traumahealing #trauma #attachment #mytherapistsaid#attachmentstyle #attachmentissues #attachmenttheory #therapy #freetherapy #therapist #dating #datingtips #datingadvice #datingcoach
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The Therapy Girl
2 years_ago
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This is why I insist that parents need support: they’re healing themselves, they’re healing their children, they often need to heal some parts of their marriage, and for many parents, they’re also supporting the physical + medical needs of THEIR OWN aging parents in the background! And ha, not to mention if they’re employed 🙃🙃 This is why family therapy is so important. We MUST begin by supporting the parents so that they can lead the healing of their family. In the family therapy that I have been extensively trained in and practice, Emotionally Focused Family Therapy, we divide therapy into two phases: 1) parental openness 2) child vulnerability. We do not bring the child and parent together until the parent is open to the child’s needs and vulnerability. This protects the child from getting hurt further and sets the parent up to successfully work with their child. I decided to role play this particular dyad 1) bc I see it in around 1/3rd of mom-daughter dyads that I’ve worked with 2) I also saw a good bit of this in the comment section of that viral post about parents taking accountability. More than one comment outright said, “they should validate me.” Lol. My aim is not to attack mothers or fathers. It is to show where things go wrong and how that creates pain that then becomes a legacy of pain when we pass it down to our children. Family therapy involves examining our own relationships and experiences as children, identifying the pain that we have there, and working to heal both our own pain and that of our children’s. And this is what the work looks like right from the first parent session. #familytherapy #family #mom #dad #kids #dysfunctionalfamily #childhood #childhoodtrauma #cptsd #trauma #nocontact #nocontactwithparent #relationship #telationships #communication #attachment #attachmentstyle #attachmentissues #anxiousattachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #therapy #therapysessions #therapytiktok #therapist #mentalhealth #skit #roleplay #fyp #foryou #parenting #parenting101 #parentingtip #parents #parent #parentifiedchild
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Steph the Attachment Therapist
1 years_ago
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FAKE⚠️⚠️ #lcvelyastxrism #bestfriend #fy #fyp @lilah #relatable #fyp #foryoupage #school #fyp #bestfriend #foryou #fypシ #fypage #tylerthecreator #school #attachment #attachmentissues #bestiegoals #friendship #rideoride #zodiac #zodiacs #zodiacsign #zodiacsigns #astrology #astrologytiktok #astrologia #loveyou #affectionate #nonaffectionate #bestfriend #fyp #ftp
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✨Z•O•D•I•A•C S•I•G•N•S✨
1 years_ago
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lol idk if this is too niche but i feel like i’ve seen this combo a lot #attachmentissues #daddyissues
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ayanna :))
3 years_ago
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The Inner Work can help you understand, address, and heal any and all human issues you may find yourself struggling with. In the case of anxiety our self-esteem development has been stunted because of exposure to wounds of distrust. Whether from parents, friends, abuse, society, etc. we have been imprinted with a deep sense of fear of the unknown. If we don’t reconcile this subconscious imprint we become anxious in our life. The healing path for this person is to accept that while painful things can happen in this life, we must trust OURSELVES that we will keep ourselves safe and know what to do in each moment. This focuses our healing on our own discernment and respect for caution. With this trust of ourselves established we can move through the unknown and the possible dangers of the world knowing that we will be ok despite the possiblities of hurt. This then moves us up in our development to face our wound of inadequacy, or in other words our ability to develop skills and accept we may have to learn new things that we currently don’t know. This is a huge step in our self-esteem because instead of being stuck in fear, we are able to be face our fears and learn new skills to overcome them, rather than letting them overcome us. When we feel adequate in our abilities to navigate the unknowns of life, we get one huge step closer to confidence and peace of mind. Get The Inner Work to learn more about the healing journey and how to reach your full potential of a life of true freedom and lasting happiness. Why am I anxious Where does anxiety come from Why do I have anxiety Why are they so anxious Fear of the unknown Anxious attachment #innerwork #theinnerwork #theinnerworkbook #innerchildhealing #shadowwork #selfhelpbooks #traumahealing #innerchildwork #innerchild #booksthatchangedmylife #healingjourney #attachmentissues #attachmentstyle #mentalhealth #anxietytips #anxietydisorder #anxiety
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The Inner Work
1 years_ago
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Tired of feeling this way? 😌 Come to my “How to Communicate Your Feelings Without Starting a Fight” LIVE Workshop! Learn how to start these types of conversations in a brand new way that will have your partner actually want to listen and understand what you’re feeling. Or Book a Consultation Call with me if youd like to work 1:1 togerher 🥰 #relationshipcoachingtip #attachmentissues #relationshipcoach #lifecoach #enotions #subconciousmind #attchmenttheory #secureattachment #marriagecoach #communicatewithyourpartner #communicatebetter
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Erica | Relationship Coach IFS
2 years_ago
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If anxious partners could have the words for their hearts…. (please share so others can see ❤️) If you struggle with anxious tendencies in your relationship, please know that it doesn't make you a bad person. You've learned the habits because they helped you cope in some way, meaning… they can be shifted. This post doesn't condone or encourage unhealthy behaviors or tell anyone to neglect their needs. Each partner must actively take responsibility for their actions, communicate better, and work on building healthier habits for a secure relationship. The hope behind this letter is; 1. For the partners to better understand their anxious lovers. Deep down, they are terrified of being inadequate and being abandoned. 2. For the anxious partners to understand where their actions might be coming from so that they can compassionately guide themselves towards growth. I hope this encourages you to allow compassion and understanding to guide interactions with yourself and your partner. Here's to understanding ❤️ -------- Are you an anxious lover? Do you want to learn how to communicate like this, to open up conversations rather than push your partners away? Ready to become secure and confident in yourself? Come and join the 'Secure Love Program.' Book a consultation call to see if the program is the right fit for you! (Link in bio) • Lessons, practical guidance + Homework • 1:1 coaching with me me. • Community with other like-minded people LINK IN BIO . . . . #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #disorganizedattachment #attachmentissues #communicationiskey #relationshipproblems #relationshiphealing #nonviolentcommunication
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Coach Sarah Yoo
1 years_ago
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If left unresolved, our attachment wounds will get carried into our adult relationships, where we repeat the same patterns until we can resolve them. Deep down, anxiously attached partners subconsciously hope their partners will heal their wounds by consistently loving them and showing up the way they wished their parents did for them. "If I can make sure they're happy with me, they'll be there for me, love me, and accept me as I am. And I'll finally feel enough." Although healthy, secure partners can help us on our healing journey, only relying on them is not healthy or sustainable. It'll likely push them away, as they'll feel defeated and inadequate to love you the way you want them to be loved. The good news is that attachment styles are not permanent and can change. Some things you can do to heal the attachment wounds within: - Making the connection between past experiences and current behaviors. - Learning to provide love and acceptance for ourselves. - Learning how to soothe our anxiety. - Developing a loving relationship with our inner child. - Learning how to communicate our feelings/needs in a secure way. NOTE This doesn't apply to abusive or unhealthy relationships where anyone (no matter their attachment style) would feel anxious due to unhealthy behaviors from their partners. _______ Ready to go from anxious to secure? 🚨LIVE Secure Love Program🚨 • Live workshops + tools • 1:1 Private Coaching with me. • Community with other like-minded people 2 SPOTS LEFT Start next week. LINK IN BIO . . . . #anxiousattachment #disorganizedattachment #relationshipanxiety #attachmenttrauma #anxietyhealing #attachmentissues #relationshipproblems #anxiousattachmentstyle
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Coach Sarah Yoo
1 years_ago
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#foryou #fyp #foryoupage #healing #healingheart #mendingmind #findingclosure #movingon #loveyourself #lovingyourself #selflovejourney #words #wordquotes #quotes #youareloved #thoughts #letitgo #feelings #gentlereminders #dailyreminders #thoughttok #feelings #feeltok #youaregoodenough #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #pain #heartbreak #heartache #broken #brokentok #paintiktok #quotes #sad #him #her #Relationship #heartbroken #mentalhealth #inpain #3amtok #hurting #painful #overthinking #tired #exhausted #tiredoftrying #igiveup #givingup #Love #lonely #lovehurts #lovequotes #sadlove #imissyou #missyou #iloveyou #imfine #stillloveyou #youbrokeme #inlove #youhurtme #attachment #attached #actingokay #actingfine #imokay #imnotokay #ex #attachmentissues #perfectpartner #coupletok #itiswhatitis #nevergoodenough #notenough #neverenough #bareminimum #effort #breakups #heartbroken #heartbroken💔 #lostwithoutyou #lostwithoutyourlove #imfallingapart #fallingapart #breakinginside #ineedyou #ineededyou #ithinkillmissyouforever #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #quotes #quotetok #quotetiktok #heartbreak #broken #feelings #feels #relationship #him #her #paintok #brokentok #pain #imokay #imfine #healing #heal #2am #3am #2amfeels #cantsleep #iloveyou #inlovewithyou #thinking #thoughts #cantstopthinkingofyou #stillloveyou #perfectpartner #perfectcouple #coupletok #couplequotes #effort #lostwithoutyou #breakup #ineedyou #bestfriend #youbrokemefirst #love #tired #exhausted #givingup #giveup #mentalhealth #3amtok #hurting #lovehurts #lonely #tiredofbeingalone #trust #trustissues #youdeservebetter #youreworthit #loveyourself #moveon #movingon #gettingoverit #movedon #overit #itsdone #itsover #firstlove #secondlove #unloved #youareloved #inspirationalquotes #positivequotes #healingjourney #heal
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randomgirll777
1 years_ago
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Replying to @stewurt change is uncomfortable but worth it in the end. #attachmentissues #healing #mentalhealth
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Chayse Byrd
1 years_ago
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Attachment Style. #attachmentstyle#attachmentstyles#attachmenttheory#attachmentissues#relationshiptips#relationshipadvice#attachment
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Attachment Styles
4 years_ago
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pls my attachment issues r so bad #emmachamberlain #podcast #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #attachment #attachmentissues
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marissa wulff
3 years_ago
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#relationship #hubungan #effort #bareminimum #attachmentissues #attachment
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bukan aliciasurya🤔
1 years_ago
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#foryou #fyp #foryoupage #pain #heartbreak #heartache #broken #brokentok #paintiktok #quotes #sad #him #her #Relationship #heartbroken #mentalhealth #inpain #3amtok #hurting #painful #overthinking #tired #exhausted #tiredoftrying #igiveup #givingup #Love #lonely #lovehurts #lovequotes #sadlove #imissyou #missyou #iloveyou #imfine #stillloveyou #youbrokeme #inlove #youhurtme #attachment #attached #actingokay #actingfine #imokay #imnotokay #ex #attachmentissues #perfectpartner #coupletok #itiswhatitis #nevergoodenough #notenough #neverenough #bareminimum #effort #breakups #heartbroken #heartbroken💔 #lostwithoutyou #lostwithoutyourlove #imfallingapart #fallingapart #breakinginside #ineedyou #ineededyou #ithinkillmissyouforever
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randomgirll777
2 years_ago
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Replying to @Sarah Cole The Inner Work can help you understand, address, and heal any and all human issues you may find yourself struggling with. In the case of anxiety our self-esteem development has been stunted because of exposure to wounds of distrust. Whether from parents, friends, abuse, society, etc. we have been imprinted with a deep sense of fear of the unknown. If we don’t reconcile this subconscious imprint we become anxious in our life. The healing path for this person is to accept that while painful things can happen in this life, we must trust OURSELVES that we will keep ourselves safe and know what to do in each moment. This focuses our healing on our own discernment and respect for caution. With this trust of ourselves established we can move through the unknown and the possible dangers of the world knowing that we will be ok despite the possiblities of hurt. This then moves us up in our development to face our wound of inadequacy, or in other words our ability to develop skills and accept we may have to learn new things that we currently don’t know. This is a huge step in our self-esteem because instead of being stuck in fear, we are able to be face our fears and learn new skills to overcome them, rather than letting them overcome us. When we feel adequate in our abilities to navigate the unknowns of life, we get one huge step closer to confidence and peace of mind. Get The Inner Work to learn more about the healing journey and how to reach your full potential of a life of true freedom and lasting happiness. Why am I anxious Where does anxiety come from Why do I have anxiety Why are they so anxious Fear of the unknown Anxious attachment #innerwork #theinnerwork #theinnerworkbook #innerchildhealing #shadowwork #selfhelpbooks #traumahealing #innerchildwork #innerchild #booksthatchangedmylife #healingjourney #attachmentissues #attachmentstyle #mentalhealth #anxietytips #anxietydisorder #anxiety
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The Inner Work
1 years_ago
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Your attachment stule can make or break your relationship. The most important thing is that you’re aware if your attachment styles and attachment issues so you can manage your triggers and your emotions :) #attachmentstyle #attachmentissues #attachmenttheory #psychologytips #datingadvice #datingpsychology
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Charie G | Psychology
1 years_ago
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😚#relatable #relatablecontent #toxic #relationship #relationships #ex #bf #gf #narcissist #pride #attachmentissues #love #lovestory
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Leonarobertss
1 years_ago
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Overthinking ALL.THE.TIME 🥲😩 help. #overthinkingang #overthoughts #overthesethoughts #fyp #mentalhealth #attachmentstyles #attachmentstylesanddating #attachmentissues
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Mils | Sex Educator / UGC
1 years_ago
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#foryou #fyp #foryoupage #healing #healingheart #mendingmind #findingclosure #movingon #loveyourself #lovingyourself #selflovejourney #words #wordquotes #quotes #youareloved #thoughts #letitgo #feelings #gentlereminders #dailyreminders #thoughttok #feelings #feeltok #youaregoodenough #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #pain #heartbreak #heartache #broken #brokentok #paintiktok #quotes #sad #him #her #Relationship #heartbroken #mentalhealth #inpain #3amtok #hurting #painful #overthinking #tired #exhausted #tiredoftrying #igiveup #givingup #Love #lonely #lovehurts #lovequotes #sadlove #imissyou #missyou #iloveyou #imfine #stillloveyou #youbrokeme #inlove #youhurtme #attachment #attached #actingokay #actingfine #imokay #imnotokay #ex #attachmentissues #perfectpartner #coupletok #itiswhatitis #nevergoodenough #notenough #neverenough #bareminimum #effort #breakups #heartbroken #heartbroken💔 #lostwithoutyou #lostwithoutyourlove #imfallingapart #fallingapart #breakinginside #ineedyou #ineededyou #ithinkillmissyouforever #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #quotes #quotetok #quotetiktok #heartbreak #broken #feelings #feels #relationship #him #her #paintok #brokentok #pain #imokay #imfine #healing #heal #2am #3am #2amfeels #cantsleep #iloveyou #inlovewithyou #thinking #thoughts #cantstopthinkingofyou #stillloveyou #perfectpartner #perfectcouple #coupletok #couplequotes #effort #lostwithoutyou #breakup #ineedyou #bestfriend #youbrokemefirst #love #tired #exhausted #givingup #giveup #mentalhealth #3amtok #hurting #lovehurts #lonely #tiredofbeingalone #trust #trustissues #youdeservebetter #youreworthit #loveyourself #moveon #movingon #gettingoverit #movedon #overit #itsdone #itsover #firstlove #secondlove #unloved #youareloved #inspirationalquotes #positivequotes #healingjourney #heal
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leah 💌
1 years_ago
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that office gives me ptsd now 💀💀 #fyp #foryou #attachmentissues #❤️ #relate
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Brittany Marie
2 years_ago
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Let’s talk about attachment #therapywithdrmariel #attachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #attachmentissues #reparenting #reparentyourself #trend #fyp #fy
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Dr. Mariel Buqué
3 years_ago
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How to break a soul tie and break attachment issues. #ttsacl #attachmentissues #blackg#luxuryblackgirltiktok #manifestationmethod
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Iamyannaspeaks
1 years_ago
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🚨LIVE Program for Pursuer/Anxious lovers - Enrolling now: LINK IN BIO 🚨 Even though distancers* can appear cold or unbothered, deep down, most feel anxious and overwhelmed during conflicts (* also called ‘Avoidants’). They withdraw not because they want to hurt you but because they often don’t know HOW to deal with their big feelings. They learned to withdraw to protect themselves; hiding behind a wall is THEIR VERSION OF A SAFE SPACE. My hope with this post is not to encourage anyone to stay in unhealthy relationships. Rather, I hope this will help some of you understand your distancer/avoidant partners with compassion, which will help you deal with conflicts better as the Pursuer/Anxious partner. It’s common for Pursuers (Anxious) to be in a relationship with Distancers (avoidants) because their deepest fears are confirmed in each other. Pursuers’ deepest fear is that they are too much, aren’t good enough, and will be abandoned. Distancers’ deepest fear is that they’ll be overwhelmed, controlled, or smothered if they get too close to people. In such relationships, the Pursuer-Distancer Cycle is a common pattern in which many couples get stuck, which can drain or break many relationships. If you struggle with this, please know that you aren’t alone, and with willingness and effort, it can be changed. NOTES: - This doesn’t apply to healthy distancing. In some situations, taking a break and moving away from heated conversations can be GOOD for the relationship. - This doesn’t apply to abusive relationships or encouraging anyone to stay in unhealthy/unfulfilling relationships - you may need to re-evaluate it. ______ P.S. Are you the Pursuer (Anxious) partner? Do you want to break your anxious patterns and become secure in yourself and, therefore, in your relationship? 🌟Then the ‘Secure Love Program’ is for you!🌟 * LIVE workshops + tools + homework. * 1:1 Private Coaching with me. * Community with other like-minded people. Limited spots. Starting soon. BOOK A CONSULT CALL (LINK IN BIO)
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Coach Sarah Yoo
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No contact dilakukan bukan berharap mantanmu balik lagi ke kamu, tapi no contact buat diri kamu sendiri. Kamu kembali menemukan dirimu lagi & menjernihkan pikiranmu untuk mempertimbangkan orang seperti apa yang layak masuk ke kehidupan kamu. #nocontact #attachmentstyle #attachmentissues #psychology #mentalhealth #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #insecure #depressedquotes
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Read comments for HOW to start making changes ❤️ (P.S Secure Love Group Program is OPEN for application!!) #anxiousattachment #relationshipcoach #marriagetips #attachmentissues #relationshipproblems101
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