How NOT to be a perfectionist … #perfectionistproblems #perfectionist #cleaningroutine #kitchencleaning #intentionalcleaning #productivity #chronicillness #cleaningmotivation

This is how much I’ll get done on a GOOD day #cleantok #executivedysfuntion #fyp #mentalhealth #showercleaning #chores #adhd #perfectionistproblems #noenergy

some things never change 😮‍💨 its the ✨perfectionist✨ in her #poppi #drinkpoppi #poppisoda #perfectionistproblems #merchandise #somethingsneverchange

Does this sound like you? #highlysensitiveperson #highlysensitive #cleaningroutine #kitchencleaning #anxiety #perfectionistproblems #mondayroutine

For the optics. 🚬🇫🇷 #bangs #cutyourbangs #french #perfectionist #perfectionism #perfectionistproblems #innervoices #wigs #wig #wiglife #wiglovers #comedy #catsofinstagram #comedyvideos #contentcreator #creator #character #womenincomedy #funnyvideos #funnylady #comedygold #voicesinmyhead #karaleemo #groundlings #cat #catsofinstagram

The secrets out 😂 This area of my home is one I love to ignore because my literal least favourite job in the world is breaking down boxes and hurling them down multiple flights of stairs to the bins outside so I put it off until it gets to a point it’s actually unliveable 😂 it’s a bit habit I know - but we can’t all be perfect! I’m making it my New Year’s resolution to not let this cupboard get messy again and to stay on top of it … let’s see if I stick to it😂 Do you have any dirty little secrets in your home?✨ #clutterfree #declutteryourlife #decluttering #cupboardcleaning #deepclean #organisation #organisewithme #perfectionistproblems

If you want to learn more, sign up for my free newsletter! Im sending out an entire article about this later on tonight 🥰🙌 #greenscreen #perfectionist #perfectionism #perfectionistproblems #socialpsychology #imperfect

My Inner French Person showed up last week and I think she might be related to Jemi? 🐈‍⬛😱🇫🇷 This is a Patron-inspired video! If you join me on Patreon, you could inspire a future video like this one (link in bio!). I would like to thank Round Table member @Gina Negley for inspiring this video. 🏰🙏🎉 Gina suggested I try creating a live action version of my stop motion character, Tiny Kara. (If you've never watched that universe, just click on "The Kara Morgan Show" in the link in my bio!) Tiny Kara is actually the very first inner voice I ever explored. Over time I came to see her as my ID--she does what she wants and says what she thinks, and for that reason has always felt pretty dangerous to me. I wasn't sure how this character would translate into one of my inner voice characters, but i went for it because my Round Table members know what is UP! Thank you, Gina!! Thanks also to Round Table members Geoff Clark and Ed Tosca for their contributions to the genesis of this new character! 🥰👏🙏 #bangs #cutyourbangs #french #perfectionist #perfectionism #perfectionistproblems #innervoices #wigs #wig #wiglife #wiglovers #comedy #catsofinstagram #comedyvideos #contentcreator #creator #character #womenincomedy #funnyvideos #funnylady #comedygold #voicesinmyhead #karaleemo #groundlings #cat #catsofinstagram

7 Signs You are a Perfectionist. #perfectionist #perfectionistproblems #signsofperfectionism #perfectionism #perfectionismrecovery #fyp

It is unrealistic to think that you will break every unhealthy pattern of behavior in a week, day, year or generation. Thats not your responsibility. Your responsibility is to continue to take steps toward improvement on your journey and let the next generation build off your growth. You’re not just raising your children, youre raising uour children’s children. #parenting #breakinggenerationalcurses #breakinggeneraltionaltrauma #breakinggenerationalcycles #breakthecycle #parenting101 #parents #perfectionist #perfectionistproblems #perfectionism

stuck in flight response ✌🏼 release stress & stored trauma (30 day course) 🔗 on profile #somatichealing #flightresponse #perfectionism #perfectionistproblems #nervoussystemhealing #stressrelease

Reminder: you don’t have to have a clean kitchen and tidy fridge to go food shopping💕 Let me know what you think of these longer style videos? #perfectionist #perfectionistproblems #cleaningproblems #cleaningtipsandtricks #cleaningadvice #cleaninghacks #dailyroutines #cleaningvlog #dayinthelife #productivityhack #productiveday #productivedayinmylife #cleaningtiktok #fypシ゚viral

That Time I Gave A B+ To A Straight A Student. #authorsofbooktok #storytellingtok #collegegrading #straightastudentsbelike #perfectionistproblems #professorlifebelike #graduateschooltiktok #universitylifebelike

When in doubt - just clean what you can see and ignore what you cant!✨ #perfectionistproblems #perfectionist #surfacecleaner #surfacecleaning #cleaningmotivation #kitchenclean #cleaninginspo #cleaningroutine #deepclean

Are you sure there’s not anything you should be doing right now? 😰 Anytime I try to relax this is the first question my brain serves up. (And yes, the second question is “Did you get your unders?”.) 🧴 I technically have not been on vacation but I HAVE been housetting for my dear friends Susie and @user9698667143470 Holy smokes their pool and the AC were live-savers the past two weeks!!! 🏊‍♀️😎⛱️ Hoping you’re all staying cool and finding many moments to do absolutely nothing productive and feel great about it! ❤️☀️ #vacation #perfectionist #innerchild #innerchildhealing #pool #pooltime #perfectionism #anxiety #sunblock #taxes #relax #perfectionistproblems #innervoices #comedy #sketchcomedy #comedyvideos #character #womenincomedy #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #therapyforall #funnyvideos #voicesinmyhead #karaleemo #pets #cats #catproblems #catsofinstagram @LuxePaws #catmom #catsoftiktok #poolparty #catslovers #fyp #foryoupage

Filing my taxes causes me a tremendous amount of anxiety. Because I am self-employed doing my taxes means scouring my calendar for every deductible mile and then reviewing a year’s worth of credit card statements for every deductible expense. Once I’ve made the exhausting list of mileage and expenses, I must double and triple check if I’m allowed to deduct those expenses. What if I’m NOT allowed to deduct the ice cream cone I bought at the bodega for this video? What if I am committing tax fraud?? 😱😱😱 Once the expenses are triple cleared, I must go back and triple check my addition because if I add wrong and deduct to much (or too little), then you guessed it—I’m once again obviously committing tax fraud. The fear of unintentionally doing my taxes wrong can feel so overwhelming that it should come as no surprise that The Procrastinator shows up to spare me from all of that pain. When I was diagnosed with OCD, it was honestly a relief to learn that my tax anxiety is related to moral scrupulosity, an OCD theme that I struggle with. Moral scrupulosity is an obsessive concern with obtaining moral perfection, or with being a good person (and above all, not a bad person). I was really moved when I read these words by Kimberley Quinlan : ”I am not a good person or a bad person. I am a person.” Accepting that I am neither a good or bad person has (very slowly) helped me to allow myself to make some mistakes. I am a person and people make mistakes. And that is ok. That is being human. So for real now I’m going to actually start my taxes....after I post this video...and then yeah, probably after I have some lunch...and then I really do need to water that one plant...but then for sure I’ll get started on the script for next week’s video......wait....... 🫠 #procrastination #perfectionist #perfectionism #perfectionistproblems #innervoices #taxes #taxseason #tax #deduction #expenses #anxiety #procrastinator #comedy #sketchcomedy #comedyvideos #character #womenincomedy #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #therapy #therapyforall #funnyvideos #voicesinmyhead #karaleemo #taxes2022 #fyp #foryou #goofyvideo

Filed an extension and the relief is sort of starting to wear off... 😰 Anybody else feeling this? If so, I hope you've got someone like Jemi in your life to step up and really get IN your filing cabinet!! 😆🗄️ It's been five months since we adopted Jemi through @luxepaws! I love her so much and her presence has been life-changing. I don't think there's any greater proof than the delight I felt as I filmed her clawing through all my files and literally chewing on several items in there. 📂💕😱😻 #perfectionist #perfectionism #taxes #extension #taxesbelike #perfectionistproblems #innervoices #comedy #sketchcomedy #comedyvideos #character #womenincomedy #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #therapyforall #funnyvideos #voicesinmyhead #karaleemo #pets #cats #catproblems #catsofinstagram #adopted #rescuekitten #foreverhome #catmom #kitten #pawparent #streetrescue #savekittens #foryoupage #fyp #catsoftiktok #cattok #anxiety

Since I can remember my brain just hasn’t stopped. I wake up in the mornings and before i’ve even opened my eyes i’m running through my to-do list in my brain and judging myself for what I haven’t already done. Those of you who can relate to this know just how mentally exhausting this can be. Perfectionism doesn’t necessarily mean you have everything perfect all of the time. It can mean being too overwhelmed to even start basic tasks because your brain tells you that if you won’t be able to do it perfectly, then you may as well not even start. It can mean judging yourself and placing blame on yourself when things get messy or less organised even though you were sick or had other priorities. This was my natural way of being for so long and i’m slowly practising breaking this way of being each day. My new approach is to be gentle with myself. Now in the mornings I sit calmy rather than rushing from task to task blindly. I take time to actually figure out what tasks I actually need to get done that day, what can wait for another day, and what is at the bottom of my list. I pick out 3-4 priority tasks and set my expectation at that. It makes it so much easier than running through tasks at random and then wondering why i’m so burnt out and yet none of the things I really needed doing have been done. I also take a second to figure out how i’m feeling that day. I assess my energy levels, how bad my pain levels are, what my time demands are that day and make sure i’m not putting too much on myself. I always like to save about 20% of my energy because you never know what could come up that requires you to have a little battery left. Intentional living is a daily practice, but slowing down and living with intention can be done - even for those of us who are chronic overthinkers. Follow along with my journey on overcoming perfectionism and negative thinking as we tackle our home routines together in a more positive and intentional way💕 #catastrophicthinking #negativethinking #perfectionist #perfectionism #perfectionistproblems #anxietyproblems #mentalhealthawareness #dailyroutines #intentionalliving #fyp

It has now been four months since Jemi entered our lives and I think this video is a pretty good representation of how my inner perfectionist is dealing with this very new presence in my life. There are some very frustrating moments...and then there are the moments where my heart is cracked wide open and having Jemi on my lap feels like all I need in this world. And that's actually a pretty good summation of what I've been learning in general since being diagnosed with OCD...there are beautiful things in life and hard things in life and that's just how it goes. The less I fight that reality the more peace I feel. ❤️ #perfectionist #perfectionism #worry #perfectionistproblems #innervoices #comedy #sketchcomedy #comedyvideos #character #womenincomedy #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #therapy #therapyforall #funnyvideos #voicesinmyhead #karaleemo #cats #catsoftiktok #adopted @luxepaws #rescuekitten #foreverhome #catmom #kitten #pawparent #streetrescue #savekittens

If only u knew how many different intros i have in my drafts for some of ur favorite videos of mine.. sighssss 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ #perfectionist #perfectionistproblems #contentcreators #influencersbelike #perfectionism #strawberrygirl #whitestrawberry

I can’t be the only one who skipped over the “wild” phase 😮‍💨 #iusedtobeyoung #relatable #oldestchild #gettingolder #mileycyrus #momtok #formoms #growingup #perfectionistproblems #goodgirl

Ready to regulate and heal? #peoplepleasers #peoplepleaserproblems #peoplepleasingrecovery #perfectionistproblems #perfectionist #changeyourmindchangeyourlife #nervoussystemhealth #mindbodyhealing #traumahealing #healingtrauma

Another day where I let my perfectionism get the better of me. Sorry but you can always do better. #gym #gymtok #fit #fitness #weight #weights #weightlifting #viral #viralvideo #viraltiktok #virall #viralvideos #fyp #fypシ #fypage #fypシ゚viral #fypp #foryour #foryourpage #foryourepage #foryourpages #powerlift #powerlifter #powerlifting #bodybuild #bodybuilder #bodybuilding #guyswithtattoos #tattoo #tattoos #mustache #abs #sixpack #sixpackabs #weightlift #weightlifter #gymfail #gymfails #weightliftingfail #weightliftingfails #funny #haha #lol #laugh #laughoutloud #comedytok #fittok #viraltok #brofail #fail #failed #nailedit #split #jerk #splitjerk #jerkblocks #perfectionist #perfectionism #perfectionistproblems #perfectionists #crossfit #crossfitter #crossfittraining #crossfitfail #crossfitfails #better #getbetter #neverquit #alwayslearning

This is a patron-inspired Round Table video!! Credit for this idea goes to wonderful patron, artist and Round Table member @Kell Ryland! Kell had the idea to do a therapy session in which The Therapist only ever asks "How does that make you feel?", emphasizing different words each time she asks it. I loved the idea and decided to try it. It ended up being a perfect opportunity for The Perfectionist to voice their frustrations about Jemi's (my new cat) interference in their daily work (see last week's video!). In all honesty, I am so happy and surprised to report that I am caring less and less about the disorder that Jemi has brought into my life (like the litter everywhere and the cat toys strewn about, and the destruction of my blankets and the early morning awakenings)...and feeling more and more grateful and astounded that I get to spend every day with this hilarious, adorable, strange creature. ❤️ If you'd like to help inspire a future video (and get a sexy sweater vest postcard from me), you can join me on Patreon! (link in bio!) ✨🥰 #perfectionist #perfectionism #therapy #therapist #worry #perfectionistproblems #innervoices #comedy #sketchcomedy #comedyvideos #character #womenincomedy #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #therapyforall #funnyvideos #voicesinmyhead #karaleemo #pets #cats #catproblems #catsoftiktok #therapytiktok #therapytok #fyp #foryoupage

“Imposter Syndrome doesn’t affect our ability to shoot, but it affects where we aim”- Erika Livingstone • I’ve danced with imposter syndrome for a while now, and I can even agrue AND agree that the idea of it is complete BS…. However, there have been TOOOOO many moments where I have doubted myself and felt like I didn’t belong. Where I Felt like I wasn’t smart enough. Where I felt like I needed to do MORE, be MORE. • Learning to celebrate TRYING has been a huge mindset shift for me. I can come up with a MILLION reasons why I shouldn’t do something… but I don’t need to listen to them and it doesn’t mean they are TRUE. And even if some of them are… who cares lol. Its ok to be seen TRYING. PS.. shoutout to the amazing @Elyse Myers for the inspo for this video! #impostersyndrome #impostersyndromethings #impostersyndrometiktok #neurodivergent #perfectionist #perfectionistproblems

🎉This is a Patron-inspired video!!👏At our last Patreon Round Table meeting one my patrons who works in the tech industry had the idea to do an episode about all the layoffs that have happened in tech over the past year, focusing on the anxiety, denial and toxic positivity that so much uncertainty can cause. I think most of us can relate to this job-security anxiety, whether or not we work in tech. I certainly have been feeling some anxiety as we’ve all experienced this downturn in the economy. These times can be really hard for those in the arts and for people who support people in the arts. This video reminds me of how deeply grateful I am for my supporters on Patreon. Their support as quite literally enabled me to become a full-time content creator. If you’d like to help me stay a full-time content creator and also receive a sexy sweater vest postcard from me and maybe the chance to inspire a future video, join me on Patreon! Link in bio! 🙏💕 #perfectionist #perfectionism #patreon @patreon #anxiety #layoffs #techlayoffs #thecoach #cheesyquotes #worry #toxicpositivity #inspirationalquotes #perfectionistproblems #innervoices #comedy #sketchcomedy #comedyvideos #character #womenincomedy #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #therapy #therapyforall #funnyvideos #voicesinmyhead #karaleemo

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👀 #perfectionistproblems #perfectionistcheck #jewelrydesigner #jewelrytiktoks #jewelrybrand #entrepeneurtok #adinasjewels #adinakam

What do you think is the biggest mistake you make in your cleaning routine?🧼 If you relate to this check out my last video on how not to be a perfectionist!✨ #perfectionistproblems #perfectionist #cleaningroutine #kitchencleaning #intentionalcleaning #productivity #chronicillness #cleaningmotivation #cleaning

In my defense, I really WANT to love learning new things… I just need to be perfect at them first 🤣 #perfectionist #tryingnewthings #perfectionism #perfectionistproblems #ihatetryingnewthings