I’m not trying to be a “perfect parent.” And I believe my kids know this… they know I am not going to constantly engage. They know I get overstimulated, grouchy, and often have to reset my attitude and energy. But they also know that I am all about connection and secure attachment. That I will listen to their needs, consistently respond to them, and I will do my best in that moment to meet them with where they are at. And when we have hard moments, they know I’m capable of repairing. These 4 phrases have helped shape our relationship in this way. I believe these phrases show them my focus is on connection and fostering a relationship of trust, support, and love. I share them here with you today because I’ve seen the positive impact they’ve had on our family when we not only use them, but deeply feel them. “I love spending time with you” “I feel you” which is our way of saying, “ you are safe with me, you of ahead and feel the feels, I got you, let it out.” “Let’s do it together” “I’m here” This post was inspired by a post I saw from @Eli Harwood If you don’t yet follow her, she’s a mama, a therapist, and author with a new book coming out that I can’t to come out and plan on buying called “Securely Attached” This is not a paid add, she’s just one of my favorite creators to follow and glean the most special insight into parenting from. #parenting #motherhood #motherhoodjourney #connection #secureattachment