These are all ✨real✨things people said to me after i had a miscarriage. I know people meant well, but none of these are helpful or supportive. Suffering through the trauma of miscarriage, infertility and/or child loss can feel extremely isolating. And all we want is for our friends and family to hug us, tell us they love us, and to listen. We dont want to hear your opinions on “what we did wrong”, and we dont need you to make us feel better or convince us that it “wasnt meant to be”. Were greiving, just like you would if you lost someone you love. Things you could say that would be helpful if you do want to support someone who has miscarried are: ✨”Im so sorry for your loss” ✨”I cant imagine how painful this must be. Please tell me about it, if you feel comfortable”. ✨”Youre not to blame” ✨”Youre feelings matter” ✨”Im thinking of you” Miscarrying is such an awful and traumatic experience, and just hearing comforting words from people who love us makes all the difference❤️ . #miscarriage #miscarriageawareness #miscarriagesurvivor #ivfjourney #ivfwarrior #miscarriagesupport #momlife #momtruth #infertilityjourney #infertility #infertilitystruggles #infertilityawareness #infertilitysucks