Why I transitioned genders before having a baby! #fyp #transgender #birthingperson #transition #baby #homebirth #waterbirth #viral

Replying to @Ellis yup! #fyp #foryo #trans #transgender #nonbinary #transdad #birthingperson #homebirth #waterbirth

Traumaaatiicccc. 6PM my OB told me cervidal through the night and pitocin in morning. Then there was the shift to my night nurses and idk who made the call but she started me pitocin at 11:30PM bc i wasnt progressing quick enough? When the contractions started 20 mins in, they hit me like a train at 129mph. kept telling me that this was “early labor” which messed with my head bc i was like how the heck am i going to survive active labor and transition. I couldn’t sit all night because it felt like sitting on razors. I paced the room for 9 hours and breathed through every contraction in low hums. Proud of myself but holy heck it was painful! #laboranddelivery #laboranddeliverynurse #birthstory #birthingperson #ivfwarrior #ivfsuccess #firsttimemom #momsover30 #pregnancyjourney

It's almost always assumed that Wilder's birth was planned, but it wasnt! But sometimes the universe does for us, what we cannot do for ourselves and blessed me big time. Here's a bit more of our story. #fyp #foryou #viralvideo #birthingperson #unplannedpregnancy #surpise #blessing #baby #transgender #dadbod

My second pregnancy. Reveal Zakai #pregnancy #secondbaby #seahorsedad🏳️‍⚧️ #birthingperson #trans #pregnant #gendernonconforming #nonbinary

Cleaning out my drafts and I found this. 🥰 #fyp #foryou #transdad #transgender #inclusivelanguage #nonbinary #birthingperson

I did not have a big baby like I heard daily i would have becuase of how big my stomach got. Wilder was 7lb4oz at birth. All bodies are different and all bodies are beautiful. I also often got asked if i was having twins becuase I got so big and everytime it hurt my heart. Because no, i wasnt. But I deeply wanted twins and evertime i was asked it reminded me that i wasnt. Stop commenting on other people's bodies, even (and especially) the pregnant ones. #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #birthingperson #nonbinary #transmasculine #transgender #pregnancy

I asked what i looked like during birth bc i was so confused on how much quicker this labor went. This is caleb’s Accurate dipiction of my birth story. The epidural was next level even with the lowest dose they could give. Had zero feeling besides pressure and had no idea if i was pushing correctly. So i kept asking for more validation, as shown by Caleb 😂 #birthstory #laboranddelivery #epidural #epiduralbirth #epiduralplease #fyp #foryoupage #birthingperson #daddyoftwo #daddysboy #dadsover30 #37weekspregnant #38weekspregnant #39weekspregnant #40weekspregnant

Replying to @Samantha laymon for me, it was all about my breath work! #birth #birthingstory #birthingperson #homebirth #waterbirth #unmedicatedbirth #nonbinary

Replying to @Anna if youre not able to figure it out from this video, that's on you, not me. Trans and nonbinary people can and do give birth too! #fyp #foryou #birthingperson #homebirth #waterbirth #birthpool #transgender #nonbainry #birth

No, i have zero regrets when it comes to the gender affirming care i have had the privilege of accessing. #transgender #trans #nonbinary #transition #topsurgery #pregnancy #baby #donormilk #birthingperson

What dows your kid call you if you're nonbinary? #nonbinary #transmasculine #parent #papa #parenting101 #birthingperson #pregnancy #pregnantpapa

My existance is valid as a non-binary birthing person and my experiences are worthy of taking up space and language. I'm not a woman, but I am a person with a uterus who decided to carry a child. Childbirth isn't exclusive to women. #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #viralvideo #birthingperson #inclusivelanguage #pregnancy #childbirth #transgender #nonbianry #transisbeautiful

My strongest inspiration. #birthingstory #birthingperson #pregnanttiktok #trans #visibility #lgbt #pregnantlife #2under2 #transdaddy #transman #transmascnonbinary #seahorsedad🏳️‍⚧️

Although Wilder helped me get sober, they don't keep me sober, I keep myself sober. The weight of my sobriety is something I strive to never place upon my child. With the support of medication, therapy, recovery programs and connections with others, I'm five days away from celebrating four years sober from m€th! Also, all video of wilder used is old. #sober #sobriety #wedorecover #recoveryispossible #trans #birthingperson #homebirth #waterbirth

Replying to @Dannythetransdad to the original poster of this question, i hope this helps! ❤️ from one single parent to another. #fyp #transdad #birthingperson #nonbinary

Replying to @AHLAM🇬🇧🌧 your ignorence is showing. My identity is in fact, not a joke. Have the day you deserve. #fyp #trans #transgender #nonbinary #birthingperson

Replying to @Sheegy_Rocky no, not really! #fy #foryou #transition #pregnancy #topsurgery #birthingperson #nonbinary

#answer to @r｡r• found this in my drafts, sorry it took so long to answer! #ftm #trans #nonbinary #birthingperson #topsurgery

Replying to @Mihaela you're funny! Trying to tell other people that their identity is wrong. 😂 girl, bye. #fyp #foryou #troll #transgender #nonbinary #birthingperson #identity #father #girlbye

If you're struggling with active addiction or mental health, please know that you are worthy and loved. I didn't think there was life past active addiction, but there was. And boy oh boy, is it beautiful. #fyp #viral #foryou #birthingperson #pregnancy #sobriety #sober #birthstory #nonbinary

Gender dysphoria isnt a requirment for being trans. And loving my pregnant non binary body doesnt make me a woman. #fyp #foryou #viral #tranagender #nonbina #birthingperson #pregnancy #pregnant #pregnantbelly

Notice what they all have in common??! Yeah, me too. #fyp #transgender #nonbinary #birthingperson #ftm #pride #humantoo #bekind

Parenting is all about flexibility and being able to adapt and make changes when necessary. Wilder is no longer a baby and is often recognized in public. For safety reasons and a lack of consent, I'm no longer goinf to be showing Wilder's face here. I'm not removing old content and may use old videos in the future, but will no longer post new or up ro date pictures. They will still be included and heard, but their face will not be seen. Thank you for your continued support. ❤️#fyp #foryou #viral #birthingperson #toddler #consent #pregnancy #pregnantbellybump #pregnantbelly.

Just so you know #bornwoman #ftm #transition #transmanoftiktok #transmasculine #transmasculinenonbinary #nonbinary #seahorsedad🏳️‍⚧️ #birthingperson #viral #fyp

Trans and non-binary people are just as capable and worthy of creating families as anyone else. ❤️ #birthingperson #nonbinary #transgender #family #queer #singledad

Maybe one day, but not anytime in the near future! #fyp #viral #birthingperson #transgender #nonbinary #family #pregnancy #birth

Replying to @jessdougie there are many paths to recovery and ways to get and stay sober. You can stop cold turkey, without being a dry drunk. It's not about how you stop, it's about what you do after. #fyp #foryou #pregnancy #birthingperson #recovery #sobriety #rehab #treatment #drydrunk #recoveringaddict #wedorecover

Replying to @Vanessa Perez with a bottle! The same way any other baby who isn't breastfed does. #donormilk #milkdonor #breastmilk #breastfeeding #baby #babies #bottle #birthingperson

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