I want to make it clear that I love the content that @jjake___ is creating. What I want us to be critical of is the way we praise and applaud working dads versus the way we shame working moms. Society has different expectations of moms and dads. ##workingmom##wfhmom##workingdad##parenting##millennialmom##dayinmylife##dadlife

It is so important for men to be involved in the early days of caring for their newborn babies. It is so important for men to help care for their partner after they’ve given birth. However, when men do this, they get a participation trophy even when they’re not doing the book of the work. When women do this work if they were to list out these stats they would be told so you signed up for this, so what? This is your job. The double standards are wild and the math just doesn’t add up. #newmom #newdad #newborn #newparents #csectionmom #millennialmom #motherhood

Replying to @Linda Descher Schnepf these are my actual daycare rates for 2024 and 2025. It’s not hyperbole when parents say childcare is expensive. ##childcare##childcareprovider##daycare##motherhood##millennialmom##costofliving##nanny##parenting##inflation

I simply suggested that men could participate in making their kids lunches. I suggested that men could be active dad. A lot of men didn’t like that. ##millennialmom##momsoftiktok##schoollunch##motherhood##momlife##dadlife##dadsoftiktok##gendernorms##toxicmasculinity

As a mom of four kids, one of the number one questions I get is how do we afford it? This question makes sense because the cost of raising kids has gone up exponentially. Childcare alone is one of the fastest rising cost in the country despite being a necessity for so many. #childcare #daycare #momof4 #millennialmom #familyfinances #millennialparents #oneanddone #parenting #workingmom

I personally don’t want a guy in finance. I want a guy who I see. I want a guy who takes care of his kids. I want to marry more than the money. #millennialmom #marriage #marriagehumour #finance #dadsoftiktok

If you are looking for a comfy and functional mom outfit these fit the bill. @@Swoverallsare so fun and so comfy for running around with the kids. Even if you dont have kids these are amazing for lounging around! ##swoveralls##momoutfit##momootd##millennialmom

I am so excited about my new shoes from @VIVAIA I have been eyeing this brand forever and am so excited to finally have a pair. They are so comfortable! The insole is padded and provides pressure relief which makes a huge difference. Not only are they comfy they are also sustainable!! #comfortableheels #comfortableshoes #vivaia #vivaiashoes

I’m a mama for kids and I am able to travel and leave my family for work or for pleasure because I have a partner who actively participates on a daily basis in our home. My husband is an equal participant. He’s a dad who is very involved and knows what’s going on and his kids lives. He also has a job but his job of being a husband and a dad is the most important job the same way that my job is being a mother is the most important job. I have his support and he has mine and this is why I talk about equity when it comes to domestic labor and parenting, because it allows both people to thrive. #equalparenting #domesticlabor #emotionallabor #momstrip #millennialmom #millennialmarriage #marriageadviceformen #mentalload

I want to understand why men act the way they do when they get together in groups. I have noticed that will act badly when they are together they will talk poorly about their partners or about their wives and children in a surface level. They joke about infidelity and how their miserable in their lives. I just can’t understand what this group mentality is and why this happens because individually these men were talking about how much they love their wives and how excited they are to get married but when they’re in this group, they act as though, they’re not ##marriagehumor##millennialmarriage##millennialmom##marriagelife