This morning, I had a conversation with someone who had done the inner work and got scared because they were no longer resenting their relationship! For a moment, this person felt nervous because, up until now, she believed she only had the right to refuse something if she was suffering. But thatâs not true. Just because you free yourself from resentment doesnât mean youâre suddenly okay with everything. Letting go of the part of you that reacts doesnât rid you of your preferences or desires. Instead, it opens the door to a deeper level of freedom. If this resonates with you, check out my book and start questioning the deep assumptions youâve mistaken for the reality of who you are and how life works. #boundaries #relationship #spirituality #innerwork #awakening #booktok #selfhelpbooks #tiktokshopholidayhaul