If only I’d had the access and humility to HEAR this message earlier… hoping someone who needs it can hear it now. #fyp #relationship #trust #pain #marriage #dating #wife #husband #parenting #curiosity #listening #prevention #patriarchy #communication #humility

Replying to @thatgalinoveralls No lie, my partner never thought I would “get it.” But I believe many of us are capable of change. Putting boundaries in place around minimum standards of care (whether it be parenting duties, sex life, finances, values, friendships, meal prep, hobbies, self-care routines etc.) that allow both partners to share burdens and maintain their humanity is key. #fyp #foryoupage #communication #codependency #discomfort #healing #minimumstandardofcare #standard #boundarysetting #genderroles #growthmindset #ifhewantedtohewould #marriage #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #attachment #trauma #therapy

It is unfair to put extra LABOR on someone already doing work by asking them to SPELL out how you can help. #fyp #foryoupage #otd #marriage #longtermrelationship #support #payattention #partner #shownottell #communication #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok

A halftime speech for guys. If something is not working, we must have the integrity & courage to try a new approach. Patriarchy has hurt us all, but especially women. When confronted with this pain of a failed system that has prioritized profits over people, internal reflection must be amplified and focused through the feedback of those harmed most. Instead of scapegoating women, we must learn to listen and really hear her. The answers have been here all along, validated by the lived experience of those with marginalized and oppressed intersectional identities. #fyp #pain #foryoupage #communication #dismantlethepatriarchy #anger #misdirection #selfreflection #relationship #willtochange #growthmindset #reparations #community #capitalism #grief #healingjourney #systemfailure #personalresponsibility #listening #feminism #misogyny #change #marriage #longtermrelationship

Replying to @BJHales77 So much of our language and notions around loyalty are unexamined antiquities reflecting a desire to POSSESS someone rather than actually love them. Love can be hard, but healthy relationships never need to be controlled. #dismantlethepatriarchy #fyp #foryoupage #relationship #husbandsoftiktok #wivesoftiktok #marriage #longtermrelationship #dating #communication #betrayal #control #manipulation #therapy #codependency #attachment