Sound familiar? A toxic person in your life may set a goal for you and once you achieve it they move the goal. You end up constantly chasing approval and it never ends. Let’s learn about it and also discuss how you can STOP chasing validation from others and START healing that inner child so you can validate yourself. Remember, we can’t bargain with people, We can’t rationalize the irrational and we can only change ourselves. People can show up how they want AND WE GET TO CHOOSE if they are in our life or not and how we want to respond. #nod #narcissisticabusesurvivorgroup #narcissist_survivor #abuserecovery #traumarecovery #childhoodtraumaawareness