If your wife is pretending to want to sleep with you, because you have a habit of getting angry when she doesn’t, that’s a trauma response called #fawning. It’s similar to what kidnap victims do to stay alive, some people call it, “go along to get along“ and in marriage, we call it #maritalcoercion If you’re not absolutely sure your wife wanted it every time, have a conversation with her, starting with an apology, and make sure she knows she never has to do it when she doesn’t want to