TikTok E-commerce Data Analytics, Shoplus help you win on Tiktok business.
Get Started
info
“My teenager just doesn’t care. I don’t know how they got so lazy!” I get messages like this every day from caring and frustrated parents. Your teen’s lack of effort to create the outcomes you want or value is the SYMPTOM. Then you create a STORY that they don’t care (90% of the time that’s false - I know because I WAS your teen). The SOURCE of ALL behavior is emotions + beliefs. If your teen is afraid to fail, they failed before, thinks they ARE a failure or is worried about failing you, I promise they won’t try and it’s not because they’re lazy. Supporting change at the source means helping your teen build self esteem + confidence while they see you as a safe and trusted ally, not the enemy. Get started with my free masterclass including my proven framework to building genuine connection at the source. Tap the link in my profile today! #buildconfidence #selfesteembuilding #feelingsmatter #limitingbeliefs #behaviourchange #mommingishard #mommingsohard #parentingadvice #parentingishard #parentingteens #raisingteens #empoweringparents #parentsofteens #parentingteenagers
Duration: 28 sPosted : Sat, 20 May 2023 13:49:53
Views
22.4KDaily-
Likes
628Daily-
Comments
17Daily-
Shares
64Daily-
ER
3.17%Daily-
Latest
As a parent, it's tough when your teen pushes back with disrespect. You might feel like you're walking a tightrope between being their guide and respecting their emotions. But here's the thing: your teen can be angry, they can disagree, but disrespect? That's where we draw the line. 🚫 It's not about being a friend to your teen; it's about being their anchor. You can have amazing conversations and share laughs, but remember, you're the parent. And that's a role to be proud of. So, if you're navigating these tricky waters and need some guidance on setting boundaries with love and respect, this video is for you. Let's transform the way we handle disrespect and build stronger, healthier relationships with our teens. Click the link in my bio to access my FREE masterclass and start changing the way you and your teen communicate. Together, we can make respect a two-way street. 💕 #mommingishard #mommingsohard #parentingadvice #parentingishard #parentingteens #raisingteens #empoweringparents #parentsofteens #parentingteenagers #parentingteens
1.7K
75
5
AlyPain - Parenting Expert
8 months_ago
Parents of tweens and teens - are you trying to raise a good human who understands right from wrong and is respectful of others? But your consequences to keep them inside those lines aren’t changing their behaviour and maybe creating more defiance? It’s because consequences are of ten used to reinforce control or create greater compliance, but that’s not how their brain learns. When you understand the exact words to communicate with your teen’s brain that connect, you’ll see tangible correction without the need for so many consequences. I’ll be walking you through it this week in my 5 Day Challenge, but registration closes April 29th at noon pacific time! Tap the link in my profile for fast access to get your spot and join me for a transformational week! #mommingishard #mommingsohard #parentingadvice #parentingishard #parentingteens #raisingteens #empoweringparents #momofteens #parentsofteenagers #cyclebreakers #parentsofteens #5daychallenge
1.8K
57
2
AlyPain - Parenting Expert
8 months_ago
ATTN: Cycle breakers - ever wonder why 'different' parenting isn't working? Because despite your best intentions, without a clear road map and proven strategies, your brain hears 'different' but actually does 'opposite' 🤯 That's why when you resolved to steer clear of harsh consequences, punishments and yelling to gain control you ended up with more back talk, entitlement, nagging and reminding which don't work, or feel good either! Breaking the cycle IS possible, but not by doing a parenting 180. There IS a middle ground I know you set out to create that's backed by decades of research, but getting there feels frustrating without clear directions. That's why I created my FREE masterclass that breaks it all down into actionable steps you can take now, plus I'm sharing my proven framework used in all my programs. Click the link in my bio to get quick access! #mommingishard #mommingsohard #parentingadvice #parentingishard #parentingteens #raisingteens #empoweringparents #parentsofteens #cyclebreakers
1.4K
45
1
AlyPain - Parenting Expert
8 months_ago
"Taking my teen's phone or gaming is the only way to get them to take me seriously, do what I ask or change their behaviour." I hear you, and you're frustrated and feeling disrespected, maybe at your wits end. So you use what you know and likely learned from your parents, thinking those are healthy boundaries, yet you get more defiance and no lasting change, not respect. What if taking your teen's phone/tech to get them to do what you asked is teaching them to take something important to their partner or future kids to get what they want? There is another way. Join me for my Challenge - 5 Days to a Better Relationship with Your Teen and I'll give you step-by-step instructions and scripts to set healthy boundaries that increase respect so you don't need as many consequences. Link in bio. Let's do this together! #mommingishard #mommingsohard #parentingadvice #parentingishard #parentingteens #raisingteens #empoweringparents #parentsofteens #parentingteenagers #parentingskills #parentinggoals
1.3K
43
1
AlyPain - Parenting Expert
8 months_ago
If you’ve spent time crying on your bathroom floor thinking you broke your teen, you’re in the right place. Welcome to the imperfect parenting club! My teen was pissy, disrespectful and rude and I was sure I was failing. Our conversations ended up in arguments and we were both frustrated. That’s why I created my Challenge - 5 Days to a Better Relationship with Your Teen, the fastest way to go from walking on eggshells to a more open and honest relationship. Starting April 29th, I’ll walk you through 5 areas of relationship breakdown to improve communication, lower conflict and have more constructive conversations with your teen. Tap the link in my bio to secure your spot TODAY! #parentingadvice #parentingishard #parentingtips #parentingteens #parenting101 #raisingteens #empoweringparents
1.3K
57
1
AlyPain - Parenting Expert
8 months_ago