Reply to @wisdomjorge I speak as a woman who has only dated men and have mostly all women friends who experience the same thing. She's not nagging. Shes desperate for help because she's exhausted & unheard. I've seen 1 man in my life where the roles was reversed. He did everything while also working 2 jobs and his wife didnt help at home or with the kids at all. It does happen. You're heard & your emotions are valid if thats the case with you. Too many men think their paycheck is a sufficient contribution to the relationship though. Be the partner you want before you ask those standards from the other person. #iftheshoefitswearit #marriageisapartnership #shesnotyourmom #teamworkmakesthedreamwork